People, don't be too anxious to fall in love with someone; Don't get to know someone too quickly, it must be our vigilance and protection for ourselves.
"Don't fall in love with someone in a hurry" means that you don't want to be tempted, be serious first, pay first; Because you are serious, you lost.
Before we can't guess whether the other person is interested in us, the most direct idea is never to like Ta, which will be miserable. What if Ta doesn't like me? This is an instinctive psychological defense, yes. After all, if it's just wishful love, then whether it's in the early days of love or in love, the one who is first tempted and first moved must be the loser with a bleak ending. Because there is no mutual affection, the first serious party is already at a disadvantage in the emotional world, and it is destined to catch up all the way in the future.
"Don't get too familiar with someone too quickly" means that you don't want to get too close to strangers. Before you know the other person's personality and motivation, leave enough "safe distance" for yourself, so that when you are stabbed in the back, you can quickly escape or avoid a shot.
That is what we often say, it takes a long time to know and understand a person in life or in the workplace. Don't rush into a seemingly "intimate" relationship. When it's too late to tell whether it's an enemy or a friend, good or bad, each of us needs to be rational, give ourselves and each other some space to release and show each other's truest side, and it's not too late to walk in again.
In short, protecting yourself is also a responsibility to others, there is nothing wrong. Zhou Xiao hopes that each of us can get sincerity and beauty in love and friendship.
"Don't take life lightly", feelings come quickly and often go quickly, and things that are too easy to get are often easier to lose. Therefore, don't fall in love with others easily, and don't make friends with others easily.
First, people are unpredictable. It takes time to really understand a person, and it takes a long time to know horsepower. People who say they like you at the first meeting are often unreliable. They just want your beautiful appearance. Maybe he said something similar to many girls. Calling your brother the first time we meet is not worth dating. He may only see your status, not really want to make friends with you, but have other interests. Therefore, in interpersonal communication, we should learn to distinguish right from wrong and not be blinded by appearances.
Second, true love and friendship can stand the test. It is easier to fall in love than to be together. To love a person, we should not only love her beautiful face, but also love her noble character, because the face is perishable, but the character is not easy to change. A true friend is not icing on the cake when you are rich, but a gift in the snow when you are down and out. Who really loves you and who is a true friend takes time to verify.
Therefore, whether you are in love or making friends, don't worry, be calm, and wait until you really see the essence of a person before making a decision.
In fact, every lover