If you want friends, you have to make friends on your own initiative.

If you want the care of your friends, you should first care about your friends.

If you want to help, you must help your friends first.

I think this is the foundation between friends ~

At first, I thought this was a lofty gesture of a scholar. Later, I gradually got to know Tao Yuanming and found that this was his real idea. Since he can do it and has no nostalgia for officialdom, he naturally has the courage to say such a thing. This is also the embodiment of his not following the crowd.

Now, it will be divided into two levels. First, birds of a feather flock together, and people are divided into groups. You still need to be cautious when making friends. Some friends should never be friends. Or people with too different values, it is difficult to become friends. As the saying goes: bitter. Second, don't be too lofty and self-abased when making friends. Give up making friends with people you admire just because of uncertain factors such as birth and family background.