What kind of person you are will attract the kind of people around you. This sentence is definitely not a joke, because only like-minded people can become good friends. If two people are not compatible in all aspects, even if they can become friends at first, they will only end up drifting apart in the end. When two people are together, whether they are dating or making friends, they must have similar interests, the same hobbies, the same personality, the same outlook on life and values, otherwise they will not be able to play together well.
Same-sex attracts and opposite-sex repels. People with the same personality will attract each other and become friends when they are together. People with different personalities will stay away from each other without a chemical reaction when they are together. Everyone's friends think that their personality is not much different from that person's. You only need to look at the friends you make to know what that person is like. You will find that even if a person's character can appear good in front of you, it will be completely exposed just by looking at the friends around him. Whatever the friends around you are like, they must be similar, because only the same people will attract the same people, so if you want to see what a person is like, you have to get in touch with more of his friends. The best way to judge a person is to start with his friends and see what kind of friends he has around him.
If two people are different in every aspect, do not have the same topics, and have different life concepts, then there is no way for the two people to become good friends because they cannot at least communicate. So, how can we be friends? When two people meet, they will only quarrel or fight. How to build a better emotional foundation and how to talk together will eventually part ways. In fact, I have many friends around me with different personalities and different life philosophies. I try my best to match each other's life philosophies, find topics to talk to, and try my best to better integrate with each other's personalities. , but I found that it was really too tiring. One day I will feel tired, and then I have to say goodbye.
Because what kind of person you are, the people around you will naturally be like that. Only the same people will attract each other and become each other's friends. If people don't think alike, they won't be attracted to each other, and they won't become friends. There are so many people in the world, why do some people become friends with others, but some people and others can only be strangers forever. It is because we have some things in common that we can get along better together, integrate better, and become friends. But if we don't have anything in common, how can we get along well with each other? If you don’t even want to make contact, you will naturally have no chance of becoming friends.