Nowadays, most families have only children, and they feel lonely without the company of brothers and sisters.

Therefore, many parents hope that their children will make friends. Playing with children will not only make their children happy with company, but also learn a lot of knowledge from other children.

However, some children have poor conduct and are not good playmates, which may bring danger to the children.

Someone accidentally shot a video of three children playing on the rooftop of a building. Two of the children were lying on the railing, letting go of their hands from time to time. Behind them was a dangerous abyss of dozens of meters.

The photographer immediately ran upstairs and persuaded the children to a safe area. The two younger children had no idea that what they just did was very dangerous. The other older girl saw someone suddenly Appeared, immediately asked to delete the video and tried to snatch the phone, which caused a lot of heated discussion.

Someone said: Although the three children were all on the rooftop, the eldest girl had been standing in a safer place and held her hands tightly on the railing, indicating that she knew the consequences of doing so. ?

Some people also said: ?The child’s parents are so bold that they dare to let their children play with such friends? ?

For the safety of children, children must pay attention to protecting themselves. Parents should warn their children to stay away from several types of friends:

Generally, younger children like to be with people older than themselves. They play with other children and act as followers of older children.

Older children often like to play pranks and sometimes tease children younger than themselves. They may use the reputation of being brave and bold, or even threaten to instigate younger children by saying "I won't take you to play". Try something more risky.

Children, on the other hand, have no judgment, do not know the dangers of this kind of behavior, and are afraid of being isolated, so they will obey it regardless of their own safety, which may have serious consequences.

Therefore, parents should tell their children that certain actions cannot be done because they may harm the body and are very dangerous. When playing with children, they must make correct judgments on everyone's suggestions and know what to do. consequences, and you must not do anything dangerous.

At the same time, children should understand that friends should care for and protect each other and will not ask them to do things that are detrimental to themselves. If your child knows the danger and their friends insist on asking you to do it, you must firmly refuse and stop making friends with them.

Although friends are important, protecting your own safety is even more important.

Some children like to lie. If a child makes friends with such people, they will be easily influenced and become prone to lying or even violence.

Rudolf, the author of "Child Psychology", believes that friendships between peers have a great impact on children, sometimes more than their parents.

Children aged 3-6 are very easily influenced by children of the same age.

In their view, imitating the actions of others can gain their trust and recognition, and they can integrate into the circle as soon as possible and become one of them. In order to achieve their own goals, they will learn to lie along with their peers.

If a child starts lying about small things, it will gradually become a habit and may lead to big problems in the future.

Therefore, parents should warn their children to learn to be honest and trustworthy, not to lie or hide among friends, and to have the courage to take responsibility for their own actions, so that they can be recognized by everyone.

Let children know that lying will be discovered sooner or later and will be looked down upon by everyone. If you encounter a friend lying, you should guide your children to learn to refuse, and actively persuade their friends to be honest children.

Right and wrong are not only found among adults, children also form their own small society when they gather together.

Some children are selfish and have strong personalities. They like to form cliques and isolate others. They will sarcastically, push, beat and scold other children, and even isolate them.

Some children, due to their personality, lack independent opinions. In order to maintain friendship or avoid being isolated, they will deliberately give money and things to please others, which often causes great harm to the child's body and mind. .

If you encounter such a situation, parents must understand their children's thoughts, stand firmly with their children, and do not blame or complain about their children, which will make their children more timid and inferior.

At the same time, children must understand that friendship is mutual. If others despise them or require them to pay money to maintain such friendships, such friendships are unequal, so they would rather give up than do it.

Let children respect themselves, focus on themselves, and make themselves happier and more confident, so that they can find true friends.

The world of minors is not as simple as people think. Children have a great influence on each other. In the process of children making friends, parents should not only allow their children the freedom to make friends, but also provide them with appropriate help.

For those playmates with poor quality, you should remind your children to keep an appropriate distance, or even stay away from them. This kind of help is very important for children who are not yet mentally mature.

As the saying goes, if you are close to ink, you will be black; if you are close to red, you will be red. Although they cannot ask other people's children, parents can ask their own children to learn to judge right from wrong and choose to make friends with children who are kind, honest, and well-behaved.

Let your children get along with such friends and maintain sincere friendship, so that they can help each other on the road of growth and make greater progress together.