Article/Daughter of the South Country

I once read this sentence: "Don't get to know anyone too quickly. Don't think that the topic is the same at the beginning. You have a lot in common. They are friends who meet each other late. Words are often false, but what we experience together is true."

San Mao once said: "Young people make friends out of eagerness and hatred. We cannot live and die together day and night."

In life, we will inevitably meet some people. When we meet them for the first time, we have a good conversation with them, and then we think that the other person is a close friend, and we are eager to let go. When the other person stays in your life, you entrust your sincerity.

But it was ignored, haste makes waste.

Water needs to be tested to know its temperature, and gold needs to be tempered many times before it can be refined into real gold. What’s more, the relationship between people needs time to test.

The relationship between people is like drinking tea. Only by tasting it carefully can you taste its mellow and sweet taste.

Emotions that are rushed are like tornadoes, they come and go as quickly as they come.

I like a line from the movie "Chunjiao and Zhiming": "We are not in a hurry, and some things don't have to be done overnight."

So, instead of doing it ten times We become close friends quickly, and we will grow old and die at ten times the speed in the future. How about we get to know each other slowly, and we will be you for the rest of our lives.

Don’t love too much, as things will turn to their extremes

On Zhihu, there is a question asking: “What troubles you most in the interaction between parents and children?”

At the bottom, a high praise person replied: "Love is too full, but the result is just the opposite."

I was worried that the other person would catch a cold, so I prepared clothes for the other person in advance. I was worried that the other person would not have enough to eat, so I gave him as much food as possible. Pick up food...

When the other party encounters difficulties, you are more anxious than the other party. You have already thought of a solution before the other party comes up with a solution.

Always give all your love to the other person, but instead of warming up your relationship, it makes you farther and farther apart.

An old saying goes: "If everything is complete, it will be lacking; if it is extreme, it will be reversed; if it is abundant, it will be lost."

This is true for family affection, and so is love.

Don’t talk too much and don’t pour too much water.

The more you love someone, the less you can love them too much and the more you have to leave some room for each other.

The best state is to love others 70% and love yourself 30%.