Life is lonely, so we need love, but many times, with love, we will still feel confused and lonely.

This situation is very common. In love, it is clear that two people are very close, it is clear that you rarely quarrel, and there seems to be no problem in love, but in the end they all end up dead.

Why? Because you are an ordinary couple and haven't been promoted to soul mates, how can you upgrade your relationship to make you closer and become soul mates?

A good relationship is based on good communication. If you want to upgrade the relationship to the soul, you must have the confidence to dance with each other's spiritual world.

With the changes of the times, we become more independent and strong, and most people can handle everything bravely, which also leads many people to feel that they have an island in their hearts.

The deeper your communication and contact, the closer the two souls are.

Second, have as many as possible? * * * Similarities?

The quickest way to make friends with someone is to like what ta likes and hate what ta hates, and the other person will respond as soon as possible. I really have a tacit understanding with this man? .

The same is true for men and women. If you want a long-term relationship, it is especially important to be bosom friends. Therefore, you should have as much in common as possible in your relationship.

Many people may disagree with this view. After all, each of us is special and has our own personality, preferences and habits.

At first, you may be attracted by the other person's personality, but after a long time, you will be rejected by the other person's personality because of your? Self? You will feel uncomfortable getting along with completely different people, and eventually you will drift away.

There are no two people who are naturally suitable, only two hearts are willing to be suitable, so they are willing to synchronize with each other and are willing to be homogenized with another person, then you will get along very comfortably and appropriately.

This is not humble, but true love, and will compromise for love. For example, if the other person likes playing games and you like shopping, why not play games with him and he will go shopping with you?

After a long time, you may find that the game makes your blood boil, and it will also make the other party find it interesting to go shopping with you.

In one's life, there is always a time to forget oneself. This is the magic of love, isn't it?

And a long-term relationship is that you change a little, I change a little, and we work together in the same direction, right?

Third, criticize and appreciate the existence of * * *

Many couples get along with two extremes, one is habitual criticism and the other is blind worship, both of which will make your emotional road very bumpy.

Habitual criticism always expresses dissatisfaction with the other party from the perspective of being good to you, while blind worship is ingratiating with no principle bottom line. Only proper criticism and appreciation can sublimate your feelings.

Moderate criticism and appreciation can increase your intimacy, just like children and parents.

When parents praise their children, they will gain a strong sense of identity and happiness. When parents criticize children, children will feel depressed, but they will not hate their parents.

Even if parents' criticism is incorrect, children with judgment may refute it, but they will believe that their parents' starting point is really good for their children.

Only those who really love you will point out the mistakes you ignore, and those who really love you will appreciate the advantages, just like our parents.

Many people are afraid that love will become kinship, but with the increase of age and the decrease of dopamine, pure love will dissipate.

And if you want to keep that little love, you can't just be lovers, but also be friends and relatives. Only in this way can your love be inseparable forever.