There is a kind of happiness called forgetting. How to understand this? Thank god, help me.
After all, forgetting the past is self-deception. As long as there is something that can be connected with the past, you can't forget the past. Don't run away, it's no use regretting. . . Isn't there a saying? You may meet someone in 1 second, fall in love with someone in one day, but forget someone in your whole life. . . . This is love! Deliberate forgetting will make you remember more deeply, so don't forget it deliberately, so that everything tends to be dull. What to do, don't let yourself often struggle alone, and it will fade away with time. . . Instead of trying to forget, it is better to keep yourself busy, enrich your life and keep yourself busy. Don't forget it deliberately. If you do, you will only remember it better. . . Try to expand your circle of friends, contact as many people as possible, try to find your hobbies and do something you like, so as to play the role of empathy. I believe that one day in the future, you will find that when you think of TA again, your heart will no longer hurt. Unconsciously, TA has become "that person". . . Many things are always known after experience, and the gains and losses are not for you to decide. Like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up at the right time. Let's learn to give up before crying, turn around and leave, what we get with tears is unreliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up, so that we can have an easier start. Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain, so you will be depressed. Let go of your hand and let TA die with the wind of memory. You will find another sky, and you will smell flower of life again and feel the warmth of the sun. . . . Giving up is not escape, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about how many people and things a person will experience in his life. If he doesn't know how to give up what he has lost and can't be redeemed, how can he catch what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to wander in front of it, or you won't wake up if you hit your head. Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that is open for you, where you can also see the stars all over the sky ... I feel that you can adopt it! ! ! I believe that love is eternal, but not forever, because our vows of eternal love are sincere at that moment. Later, with the changes of time and other social factors, we all changed, our feelings changed, and our hearts changed, but the eternity of that moment will make us unforgettable all our lives. That moment is the true meaning and essence of love. So I think time has diluted the parting person, not love, and love has frozen the memory of love at that moment. Love is a bitter wine. Who really understands? How I feel now, in retrospect, this cup of bitter wine was so sweet and delicious, wasn't it? So don't feel bad about leaving. Time weakens your tired heart, but your love is eternal in an instant. Pain is just a feeling now. One day, when you are happy, you will feel that your love is so beautiful.