You went out for dinner with your boyfriend, and so did your best friend. You agreed. As a result, you ate too much and they fell in love. Your heart is sealed with cement. Colleagues often borrow money from you and lend it to her every time. As a result, once you had no money to lend it to her, you scolded her and said you wouldn't help her. If your friends are angry with others, you should ignore them. You agreed. Later, every time she sees someone unhappy, you stay away. Finally, you are afraid of society. All of the above is because you lack a sense of personal boundaries. Although I really want to say something to these people, after all, it takes two hands to clap, and you don't care about her, you deserve it. In social relations, you must learn to establish a sense of boundary and ensure that you will not suffer and be bullied. Today, I will teach you when personal boundaries cannot be compromised.

First, it involves personal feelings. The little fool who introduced your boyfriend to your girlfriends, let me see how many little things use their brains as decorations. She told you that she just wanted to know your boyfriend, and she said she wanted to help you check it out, so you took it seriously. Are there still few videos that have been poached by girlfriends on the Internet? You deserve it. When you are in love, you are kind, and you want to be together. You really are three sets MINUS two sets. You really have a way. She will remember your kindness, won't she? She will only think that you are showing off and quarreling with your boyfriend, and will not tell anyone casually. She will help you scold. It's all mindless booing. She doesn't even know your boyfriend's name. Don't let her be a Dunhuang mural. Say less.

Second, borrow money to borrow things. We are so close, aren't we? When you run out of facial cleanser, take yours first. Why is this brand still there? Last time I bought it, I used it for half a month, and my face got pimples. Really. Friend, which sewer is not tightly covered for people to climb out? Do I care? It's okay to borrow money to borrow things, so I can't stand it. I'm not making friends. I am your warehouse and ATM. This is a typical push your luck. Just say no next time, or you'll become her coffers.

Third, she wants to be your mother. She wants to be involved in every step of your personal life. She doesn't want to be your friend, but she wants to be your mother. If you make new friends, take a photo and send a circle of friends, she will be unhappy and let you coax her. She hates Xiao Ming. What did you tell Xiao Ming without telling her? I'm angry.

Excessive demands are an infringement on others, and excessive acceptance is a disrespect for yourself. Establish a sense of self-boundary, have good social relations, be kind, but also bring your own edge.