1. Never share everything between you and anyone, including your parents' girlfriends, because there is no such thing as empathy. Just listen to other people's suggestions, but don't take them all. The more people know, the greater the contradiction between you.

2, learn to seek common ground while reserving differences, enlarge the similarities between you, to increase the tacit understanding between you, but respect each other's differences, because you remember that you are looking for an object, not a second self. Everyone has his own characteristics, which is what attracts you.

You can ignore or support him to touch the bottom line as long as it doesn't involve principles, and you can never forgive him. Don't forgive unprincipled or give in. The last one who got hurt was himself.

4, keep a normal distance from the opposite sex, it is ok to make friends, do not exceed this degree, keep a distance from the opposite sex, ambiguous. There is no need not to eat alone with other members of the opposite sex.

5. It is forbidden to communicate in a commanding tone. If you want to work or do something, you can call him coquetry and he will be very happy. You can refer to the last article, coquetry literature. If you directly order him to work, he will probably refuse or even do it.

6. Keep a proper distance. Don't rely too much on the other half. You also need to have your own space, instead of sticking together all the time. Always ask him what he is doing, why he doesn't return your messages, and don't be too loving.

7, high-quality dating, dating can quickly enhance the intimacy of two people, you can chat together and do some happy things together, such as watching movies, exchanging feelings, and traveling to increase intimacy.

8. Never reason with a girl. Just remember. If you win, your girlfriend is someone else's.

9. In front of friends, it is very self-respecting to give him face. You can ignore him at home, but if you go out to play in front of your friends, you have to give face.

10, to have a sense of ceremony, girls need to be pampered and full of holiday ceremonies, don't forget. Boys should surprise him occasionally, and you can quietly prepare a small gift. He will be very happy.

1 1. Express your feelings directly. Boys are linear animals. Besides, how can one know what another person really thinks? Don't let him guess all the time. If he can't guess, he will feel that he doesn't understand you and doesn't love you.

12, you must have your own hobbies, you must have your own things to do, and keep your heart full, instead of falling in love all day. You only have your own value and attraction, and this kind of love will be more lasting and charming.

13, lower your expectations, don't expect too much from him, you will let yourself down. There are no perfect people, and there are no impeccable men in idol dramas. The reality is that no one indulges your willfulness without reservation. Except my parents.

14, don't be angry when quarreling, but quarreling will affect feelings. Communicate in time, not cold violence, not overnight. Things of the day are handled on the same day.

15, don't leave your predecessor's post frequently in advance. This is a thing of the past. Just forget it． It is easy to arouse his antipathy to the present, which is talk.an excellent job.

16, always keep fresh. On a dull day, I occasionally make a hearty breakfast, a thoughtful little gift and a little surprise for each other.

17, don't have a strong desire for control. Everyone has their own social circle, not your own accessories.