It is difficult to solve this problem completely at the moment. Some couples go out to work at the same time. If their income is high, they can gradually bring their children's parents into the city. However, most people cannot meet this condition for the time being.
What can we do? At present, to solve this problem, governments at all levels and trade unions need to pay more attention and try to coordinate with employers. First, create more conditions for visiting relatives; The second is to use more 50-65 prime years to work in different places. Let some young people start businesses locally.
Migrant workers have been working outside for many years. Emotionally, it is easy to alienate and break the relationship between husband and wife, causing the gap between father and son.
In order to make a living, long-term separation between husband and wife will inevitably lead to the lack of normal physiological needs. They are far away in a foreign land, and they can't solve the problem of household registration migration or children going to school. They have to leave their wives at home to take care of their children and leave home to earn money to support their wives and children.
After a man gets married, the life of husband and wife is a normal need. Long-term separation between husband and wife can easily lead to extramarital affairs. Like these people who have been working outside for many years, they may not betray their families because of the separation of husband and wife, but form a "temporary couple" to live a "husband and wife" life in order to solve their physiological needs. Of course, this is very rare.
To outsiders, they are no different from ordinary couples. They eat together, go to work together, and return to the small house or shed they rented together after work. I will also send money to my home and call my wife and children, which will not affect each other. Once they return to their homes, they will no longer contact each other. However, some people are inseparable. Finally, my wife and husband found out that they were divorced. I don't know how to evaluate this behavior. Maybe everyone stands in a different position and can't understand others' thoughts and feelings.
Migrant workers are not a minority, but a huge group. How to solve the separation of husband and wife is a social problem that needs to be solved at the policy level. For those migrant workers who have worked in other places for a long time and have skills, they should be given preferential treatment in settling down, moving with their wives and children, enrolling their children in school, and arranging housing, so as to effectively solve the problem of long-term separation between husband and wife. Then, it is necessary to develop the local economy in a balanced way. With the development of local economy, employees can work nearby instead of leaving their homes. For migrant workers, they should also find relatively stable jobs. Don't work in one place this year and in another place next year, because the job is unstable and it is not convenient to settle down.
I believe that millions of migrant workers in Qian Qian are diligent workers. The hardest thing is to put aside your emotional problems through work, work hard every day and try to hide your thoughts about your family. In order to support the family, it is a great suffering both physically and psychologically to have to be wronged by his wife and become a "living widow".
I have the responsibility and obligation to support my family, so my feelings can only be put aside. I will struggle for two years while I am young, and then have a holiday when my children graduate and grow up. Many migrant workers are 40 or 50 years old in a factory, and the factory asked them to retire before returning to their hometown. The cycle is not a day or two, but several years. Only passers-by are qualified to comment on suffering.
Long-term separation between the two places makes the life of husband and wife very difficult, which requires mutual understanding and support between husband and wife. After all, this is forced by life, and no one can help it. Both husband and wife should abide by their commitment to marriage and be loyal to their families.