relationships are often mutually beneficial. All the care and help you give others will be rewarded when you encounter difficulties yourself. Secondly, be open-minded and be good at accepting others and yourself. Don't lose no time in giving praise to others. However, you should pay attention to the sense of proportion, and don't exaggerate blindly, so that people will have a false feeling and lose others' trust in you. Thirdly, we should master the skills of talking with colleagues. When talking with colleagues, pay attention to his speech and give appropriate feedback. Concentrated listening represents understanding and acceptance, and it is a bridge connecting the soul. When expressing one's thoughts, one should pay attention to tolerance, humor, conciseness and vividness. Implication not only shows your elegance and self-cultivation, but also plays a role in avoiding differences, explaining viewpoints and not hurting relationships. When making comments and pointing out other people's mistakes, you should pay attention to the occasion and use peaceful words to avoid hurting people's self-esteem and causing resistance. Humor is the spice of language, which can make conversation lively and interesting. Conciseness requires mastering what should be said and not saying what should not be said when talking to people. When talking with people, you should have your own emotional input, so that you can move people with your feelings. This is called vividness. Of course, to master the skills of expressing yourself well requires constant practice, and constantly increase one's cultural accomplishment and broaden one's horizons. Finally, take time to mingle with colleagues. It is also a good way to cultivate your various interests and make friends with them. In addition, exchanging information and learning from one's own experience can harmonize interpersonal relationships. Good interpersonal relationship is an art. All people need constant study and practice to become proficient. I hope you can make a self-analysis according to your own specific situation, so as to break through the self-enclosed fence and build a harmonious interpersonal relationship with an open mind! ! ! Second, the first is kindness. People who love to put on airs will stay away from everyone when they see them. Being able to put down one's status at any time and anywhere and get along well with others is a talent that people sincerely like. Whether it is a big official, a big boss, a big man or a big star, they are willing to get close to the people around them, keep a happy mood at any time, and are willing to say some household words. This kind attitude, like that of their own family, often makes people happy to get close and sincerely attracted. The second point is cheerful. People who are happy every day will like it when they see it. With a smile on your face, you will feel happy when you meet him. This optimistic attitude will unconsciously infect people around you, and everyone will involuntarily want to get close to him. The third point is enthusiasm. People who are enthusiastic in the group will always be respected by others. Many people are afraid of trouble for some trivial matters, and they will only shirk it blindly. They always feel why I should do it, and they are always afraid of suffering. Such people are not popular. Enthusiastic people, many people are in need of help, he will stand up and do it; Sometimes we will benefit the public regardless of our lost interests. We often feel grateful and respect for such a person for what he has done. The fourth point is humor. People who laugh and make everyone happy have the upper hand everywhere. Everyone loves pistachios, who likes to pull a long face? Although they may be full of bitterness behind them, they still bring laughter when facing everyone. Who can not love them? The fifth point is to look good. There are some attractive people among the ugly people, but they are good-looking, so take advantage of them everywhere! This is an undeniable fact. The poet said, "Beauty is eternal joy." It is human nature to like beautiful things. Beautiful people are surrounded by people everywhere, which is the reflection of this nature. Appearance, dressing and wearing can make people feel tax-pleasing, and it is also an important condition for attracting people! The other two very important conditions are "popularity" and "affinity". There will always be some people who are born with a trait, and their popularity is particularly good. When people mention him, they will have different reactions, so if you have a good condition, but your popularity is not good, you will still fail. And some big officials and stars, if they don't have affinity, will only put on airs. Such people, despite their high status or high popularity, are not successful. The above characteristics are all the characteristics of popular people. What have you done? Observe the people around you who have these qualities. When you encounter any situation, think about how such people will handle things. I believe you will also become a very popular person. ! ! !