You really can’t be too honest, otherwise others will treat you as a fool and you will suffer a lot. In fact, when interacting with friends, you must learn to speak only three points, and don't tell everything about yourself. Sincerity is a valuable quality
It’s not that Zhencheng’s quality is not good. Sincerity is always the shining point of human character. For most people, it is much more pleasant to be in a relationship with a sincere person than with a person who talks nonsense without telling the truth. But there are also a small number of people who, when they see sincere people, don't think they are "sincere", but think they are "easy to deceive". You must learn to protect yourself
Every friend is a stranger before dating. When you first come into contact with others, you cannot hide yourself completely and tell a stranger your own thoughts directly. This is definitely A heartless thing. When interacting with strangers, they slowly become familiar people and then friends. In this process, you need to learn to keep silent. This is a kind of self-protection. Friends may also betray themselves
Even if it is a familiar person, even if we have become a friend, we cannot know what this person is thinking, nor can we fully express all our thoughts. Tell him. Especially for sensitive matters, you need to be cautious and prudent. Don't let others know your true thoughts easily, otherwise they may be exploited and become a point of attack on yourself. We will always meet all kinds of people in society. Not everyone can be as kind as we imagine. We must learn to think of the worst in people. Friends don’t necessarily want to bear the weight of secrets
Friends don’t necessarily want to know your true thoughts on a matter, and they don’t necessarily want to bear the weight of secrets with you. When we were children, we experienced many times when we revealed some of our little secrets while chatting with our friends, and ended up being reported to the teacher.
When you were a child, it was just a little naughty thing, but when you grow up, some of the comments you make behind your back may have some very serious consequences. In short, we must learn to protect ourselves.