Written in front: I have always felt that I am a straight girl with two jobs. It is estimated that when this article comes out, it will be scolded again, leaving you alone and unaccompanied. However, if you don't spit, you won't be happy. Selfish me, I always just want to be happy, regardless of the accusations behind me. Besides, some friends won't just leave. I still have this confidence.

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During the Spring Festival, a long-lost girlfriend sent me a greeting on WeChat.

Her greeting was full of lilac melancholy.

I remember when I was a child, my father always talked about various topics to relieve my pain, and chatted with me to divert my attention.

In order to alleviate her sadness, I tried to chat with her. I didn't expect her to be fresh and refined, but she was troubled by secular relations.

Because my life background is different, I can't feel the same, so I can't give any substantive advice. Just like telling a story, I told her the story of fireworks in other people's homes, hoping that she could be inspired by the story.

Far from hydrolysis, near thirst, maybe this kind of chat can't help her solve the problems in real life. I only hope that the "talking about heaven and earth" that my father used on me in those years can also play a certain role in her dear body.

In my eyes, friendship is sometimes like accidentally putting your hand into the pocket of a winter coat that you haven't worn for a long time and suddenly meeting a wrinkled grandpa Mao.

In March of this year, Quanzhou was serious. My girlfriend stopped classes, the community was closed, and online shopping was done, but no one sent it. She said that COVID-19 didn't scare her, but she couldn't break through the defense by buying food.

I gave her WeChat that night, but I supported her in spirit and listened to her all kinds of hardships. I couldn't give any other help. However, she was also secretly pleased to see that she still had the strength to scold that. A person is extremely sad and resentful and doesn't want to talk, at least I am.

And I can't think of any good way, I can only comfort her a few words. Finally, she finally smiled.

Japanese friends get together and think of Mr. Wu in the newspaper. Ten years ago, if it weren't for his affirmation, my writing enthusiasm would not be as high as it is now.

Especially now, looking back at your own words is really childish and outrageous. But teacher Wu's encouragement gave me confidence and gave me the motivation to move forward.

When I think of Mr. Wu, I also think of a big brother at home. Two or three years ago, if he hadn't pushed my words into the city, I wouldn't have joined the City Writers Association. He should be another noble person on my writing road.

It has become a habit in recent years to send greeting messages when you think of a person.

So, I sent a greeting message to my eldest brother that night, but he deleted it. It is said that I was deleted once before, because his mobile phone was played by children and he accidentally deleted many contacts. That time, he took the initiative to find me.

It is not a shame for people who are kind to themselves to leave unintentionally and come back again. So, I had the cheek to make a request to my friend.

I'm glad I got it back. I hope I don't get lost again.

In fact, many literary friends have been lost in WeChat, and this home is the only one I want to get back. Don't ask me why, my intuition tells me that he is a simple good man. I, on the other hand, often trust my intuition and even want to live by it. There is reason to call herself a straight girl of steel.

I still remember that seven or eight years ago, some literary friends wrote dozens or even dozens of emails a day, but they were really tired after reading them and didn't want to reply.

I still remember that two or three years ago, there were dozens or even dozens of WeChat friends in a day. I was really annoyed when I saw the end, and I was too lazy to reply.

The terrible thing is that if you don't reply to the email or WeChat, the phone will come directly. Alas, it's also my willfulness. I won't answer either the email sender's mobile phone or the WeChat sender's WeChat phone.

Finally, my world is clean!

And I, from the bottom of my heart, thank them for leaving. I am really a boring person.

Because of these words, I really made many new friends. At the beginning, I will give a polite expression to others' good morning greetings. I'm sorry if my respect lasts more than three days, but I will ignore them.

I have no natural temperament. In my cognition, good social interaction is not a storm of chatting and greeting, but a constant stream of existence guardian.

Chat with friends

The nature of my work determines that it is impossible for me to turn off the button to add friends through group chat on WeChat privacy settings. Because many classmates and parents often want to add me through group chat, which is the most convenient way. While it is convenient for people, it will also bring some troubles to yourself.

For example, after being pulled into various groups by friends, WeChat business often comes to add me to WeChat. Some sell insurance, some sell skin care products and some sell health care products, but most of them are not my style.

Once a director came to add me, and I refused. The reason is that I am also a director, and I am also a director who does not add strangers.

If I don't buy insurance, I will lose my hair but I won't go bald. There is really no need to add it. I didn't expect the other party to send it five or six times in a row I really admire such a WeChat merchant, like an invincible Xiao Qiang. However, I refused cruelly.

Last week, I went to a group of literary friends and posted that troublesome article. Some friends who have read my words are concerned about my physical condition in the group. Wechat service, whoever is everywhere, will be sent to Friend Request immediately. At first glance, it is the WeChat business of health care products, which has failed and is too lazy to reply. No answer is the best refusal. In the adult world, there is no need to waste too much time on irrelevant people.

Other people's roads are getting wider and wider, and there are more and more friends. My world will only become simpler and more tolerant of loneliness.

Of course, when I see a friend who often sends dynamic messages in my circle of friends, I will send a private greeting message to the other person without sending messages for several days. The premise is that we are friends on the same frequency.