Second, what constitutes the biggest obstacle to our study is the known, not the unknown. ?
Third, if you are not modest, you can only have this excuse, that is, you are not modest or have no knowledge.
Fourth, the bud and bud of a virtue is the most precious virtue, the mother of all morality and humility; With this virtue, we will have endless fun. ?
An arrogant person won't grow up because he won't like serious advice.
1. On the earth, please don't be arrogant. Please don't feel inferior on the ground. People below you, please treat them as people. People who are higher than you, please treat yourself as a person. Please believe in yourself and give a fulcrum. You can pry up the earth!
2, don't make noise, don't make noise, no one will change their views on you because of your noise; Don't be sad, don't cry, no one will make you happy because of your sadness and crying; Don't give up, don't give up, no one will throw herself at you because of your self-abandonment; Don't be arrogant, don't be arrogant, no one will vote for you because of your arrogance. May you be happy and have no troubles!
Write a short article about not being proud and listen to others' opinions with an open mind. A person's life is like a bumpy mountain road, always falling into the abyss because of pride. People's life is more like a ladder standing on a rugged mountain peak, towering and steep.
Pride likes to make friends with complacent people, and modesty likes to make friends with struggling people. I vaguely remembered the lesson of regret, but I never knew it would become a gardener. After pulling up my young, ignorant and arrogant grass, the noise in the classroom is still one after another.
Everyone is talking about English grades.
"Ah, this paper is so simple. I finished it in 20 minutes. How can I get less than 95 points? Besides, I got full marks! I thought proudly.
After the sound of high heels, Mr. Zhu came in with a pile of crumpled test papers, frowning and looking serious.
"Pride likes to make friends with complacent people, modesty likes to make friends with struggling people" suddenly sounded in my ear. I immediately restrained my smile, cocked my head and began to think hard. Judging from the teacher's expression, I must have failed the exam again.
"alas! Stewed meat and spit soup are indispensable in the other area.
Oh, there was a question in the last exam, and I hesitated. If I make a mistake, it will cost 10. What should I do? "My heart is like an out-of-control alarm clock-it doesn't count at all.
Before I was fully prepared, a paper on "killing people" came at me.
My eyeliner is impartial, just falling on 86 points.
I rubbed my eyes, hoping to turn 86 points into 96 points like Liu Qian's magic.
I stare big eyes and take a closer look. Still 86 points.
"Alas, what is this sunny' muffled thunder'? I looked around and the classroom was quiet. Everyone was caught off guard by the sudden score like a drowned rat.
After school, the students screamed like prisoners were released, and the whole classroom became a sea of joy.
But I am like a bird that has lost its pearly feathers, and I am unhappy.
When I got home, I handed the paper to my mother, lowered my head and tried to avoid her eyes. I'm fully prepared to accept the storm of accusations.
I waited for a long time and didn't hear a sound.
I looked up at my mother in surprise.
In a flash, I found that my mother's eyes were not scolded and pitied, but a pair of transparent glass balls, which were no longer as bright as before.
My mother put her wrinkled hand gently on my shoulder and said earnestly, "son, success is not the reason for your pride." You have succeeded before, but you didn't win. Instead, you seem to have become a piece of fat meat, and there will be countless "evil wolves" staring at you; If you relax, you will be surpassed by others.
Children, no matter where you go in the future, remember your favorite proverb: Pride likes to make friends with complacent people, modesty likes to make friends with struggling people.
Only you have paid, even if you fail, it is glorious. If you are complacent about a glory, you will stay away from others.
Believe you, look ahead, success and failure are just a bunch of flowers.
"I dull to listen, the in the mind like a broken Chinese knot, rigidly holding, pestering.
Yes, pride likes to make friends with complacent people, and modesty likes to make friends with struggling people. In the future study career, don't be ashamed to ask questions, keep your complacency and joy in your heart and be a "perfect" person. Yes, a person's life is a boat, drifting in the endless sea. If you are a modest person, the spirit of not being ashamed to ask questions will turn into a boat and ride the wind and waves in the vast sea. If you are a complacent person, resentment and regret will turn into a typhoon, setting off waves more than ten feet high, and you will be ruthlessly swallowed up by the waves. I have also been hit by the wind and waves, but I am proud to make friends with complacent people and modest to make friends with struggling people, but I have to be pulled up by a coral reef. This sentence is like a pair of invisible big hands, pushing me to a colorful future!
Listen to the old man, don't be blind and arrogant. Do you really suffer if you don't listen to the old man's 800 words? "Son, if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer!" This is what our elders often teach us. This sentence has been the supreme "imperial decree" since ancient times, but is it really right to do so? Now children's thoughts are taught by adults that "only by listening to adults is a good child", but in this way, the sense of choice and dominance may become "blindly obeying elders".
As we all know, blind obedience is not a good thing, because education is to make people have ideas, and "not listening to the old man" often erases this idea.
Listen to the old man blindly, and sometimes you will suffer.
Everyone is familiar with the case of Shang.
Zhong Yong was blindly dragged by his father to "associate with the city people, learn nothing", thus making Zhong Yong "disappear from everyone"! What if Zhong Yong feels opposed? Then maybe a great scholar will be born in the history of China literature.
Therefore, don't blindly "listen to the old man", but listen selectively. Sometimes what adults say is not completely correct. We should have our own consciousness, even if we listen to the "old man's words", we can't blindly guide.
"Old people's words" are not necessarily good words. Sometimes adults will teach their children according to their own experience, but the experience of that era may not work in this era. What really matters is their own thoughts.
Therefore, when listening to the old people, you must not just listen, you must have your own ideas.
If one day adults are gone, who will listen to them? Therefore, in the process of listening, we need to have our own ideas.
As the saying goes, "if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer."
There are also many examples in history of being frustrated because of disrespect for the elderly.
The battle of Qin and Jin was an important battle. Before the war, Qin Mugong asked an old man named Qin Jian for advice.
Uncle Jian said, "I'm afraid it will be difficult for the labor army to attack the distant country."
Army expedition, foot soldiers tired, and the enemy is prepared, it is difficult to win.
I don't think we should go.
"Mu Gong didn't listen, so he opposed the crusade.
Uncle Jian cried and said to the coach, "Meng Ming, I saw the army go out, and I'm afraid I can't see the team go home.
Qin Mugong was very angry and said to Uncle Jian, "What do you know? I think you should be dead.
"However, the development of the war fulfilled Uncle Jian's words, and the Jin army was defeated in food.
Qin Mugong regretted not listening to Uncle Jian, but it was too late.
Let's learn from the experience and lessons of our predecessors and avoid detours.
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A centipede and a poisonous snake met on the grass ravaged by wild animals.
The poisonous snake turned away when it saw the centipede.
The centipede moved more than forty legs and quickly ran to the snake, blocking the way.
The poisonous snake fled to the east, the centipede blocked it from the east, the poisonous snake slipped to the west and the centipede stopped it from the west.
Seeing that there was no way out, the Agkistrodon opened his mouth with a loud noise, revealing sharp teeth and a long ya-shaped tongue flashing like a flame, ready to make a final fight with the centipede.
The centipede hunched its head and shot into the snake's mouth like an arrow.
The centipede enters the snake's throat, eats the heart first, then chews the intestine, and finally climbs out.
Agkistrodon was numb before the lightning attack of centipede, and he didn't even know how he died.
A few days later, the centipede climbed onto the farmer's stove and saw the slug (a mollusk) again.
It saw the slug covered in tender meat and wanted to eat it.
Ma Lu (an arthropod) advised the centipede: That guy is small; But toxic. You can't break it.
Don't lie to me.
The centipede said angrily, everyone knows that the most poisonous animal in the world is a snake, and the most poisonous snake is an adder.
If a poisonous snake bites a tree, it will wither; Bites and beasts, people and beasts have to die.
Although the poison of Agkistrodon is as fierce as fire, I centipede can pass through its throat, eat its heart and chew its belly; Drinking its blood makes me drunk, and eating its cream makes me full; But in just three days, I woke up and was as happy as usual.
The giant viper is not in my life, so there is no reason to be afraid of this one-inch slug! The centipede said, moved his calf and climbed angrily to the slug.
Slugs are not nervous when they see centipedes coming to provoke.
He stretched himself, bent and straightened the tentacles on his head, warmed the saliva with the hot air in his mouth, and waited for the centipede to approach.
The centipede just climbed near the slug, and before it could exert its prestige, it was stuck by a thick viscous liquid sprayed by the slug head on and stumbled down on the stove.
It tried to slip away, but its feet and tentacles stuck together in disorder, unable to move, just like a naked earthworm lying there.
Soon after, the centipede was eaten by a group of ants.
The pride of centipede lies in that it regards temporary victory as permanent victory, thinks that it is invincible in the world, is blindly complacent about the success of an achievement, only sees its own strengths, fails to see its own shortcomings, and exaggerates its own abilities.
You know, even if you can beat poisonous snakes, it doesn't mean you can beat slugs.
That's what the ancients said.
Life is the same, everyone has his proud moments, and everyone has a chance to achieve some kind of success.
But this doesn't mean that you are really awesome, maybe it's just an opportunity, maybe you haven't met a slug to restrain you.
Be indifferent to your own success, don't regard a temporary success as a permanent monument! A temporary success is meaningless. Life is a long way to go, Xiu Yuan. Maybe the next moment you will be knocked down, maybe the next moment you will encounter a problem that you can't understand.
So, let's not be arrogant.
No less than 800 words should be written on the topic of modesty and arrogance. Bai Juyi, a famous poet in China, always reads a poem to a shepherd boy or an old woman first, and then revises it repeatedly until they clap their hands and say it is good.
A famous poet like Bai Juyi will not despise the shepherd boy and the village woman because of their ignorance. Because he knew that real literary works must be recognized by the people, he humbly asked the people for advice, which made his poems easy to understand, widely circulated among the people and praised by future generations.
Relatively speaking, pride not only makes people lag behind, but also leads to bad consequences.
For example, the story of national subjugation: During the Five Dynasties, Li Keyong, the king of Jin Dynasty, held a grudge against Liang, Yan and Qidan and died.
On his deathbed, Li Keyong left his son Li three arrows to avenge him.
Li has not forgotten his father's legacy. When he went out to war, he put three arrows in his kit, and after his triumph, he sacrificed in the ancestral hall to motivate himself.
Under this powerful impetus, Li attacked the city, destroyed the Yan and broken the beam, and defeated the Khitan, invincible.
"The exuberance of spirit can be described as exuberance!" However, when the world was decided and it was done, Li became complacent and indulged in debauchery, spending all day with beautiful women.
As a result, the country's fortune declined day by day. After three or five years, the disaster suddenly broke out and he was shot dead by random arrows.
This story fully shows that people should not be proud. Once you are proud, if you don't clean up, disaster will happen suddenly, which is not good for you.
To sum up, "modesty benefits, profit and loss.
"Modesty makes people succeed, wins the praise of others, and pride makes people make no progress, leading to bad consequences.
This fully shows that modesty is the first step to success.
But modesty does not mean modesty, nor does it mean hypocrisy.
Modesty is a virtue in the face of honor.
"Modesty" is hypocrisy in order to win the reputation of modesty; Modesty in order to please others is modesty.
We don't need humble modesty, we don't need hypocritical modesty, we just need real modesty.
"Full loss, modest benefits.
"Let's cultivate the virtue of modesty and be a noble person! ...
How to write a good composition without arrogance? A year ago, I was an arrogant child. By virtue of my own cleverness, I always didn't pay attention to the lecture in class and thought I was great. I can understand and remember what the teacher said, and I am even more arrogant to my classmates. I have never looked down on my classmates with poor academic performance, because I am the monitor and I am arrogant.
And the re-election of the class Committee made me no longer arrogant, and there was a very obvious change ... It was a beautiful night, with orange light and shadow floating.
The students have already voted, and the teacher is counting the votes nervously.
The atmosphere is very tense and serious, but I know very well that the monitor must still be mine this time. What are you worried about? My mouth can't help rising slowly.
The exciting moment arrived, and the teacher stood on the podium and announced: "The election result of this monitor is-XXX!" Hearing this sentence, I felt as if I had been poured down from my head by a pot of cold water, and my heart was cold.
But I just want to know why. Why can he be elected and I can't? The teacher seems to see my dissatisfaction and let everyone give me advice together.
Hearing the news, everyone said noisily, "She is very complacent!" " ""She is always domineering. I can't stand it! " "She also looks down on some people because they don't study well.
""She is so proud that we can't stand her arrogance! "... hearing these words, I was dumbfounded: I had so many shortcomings. I really didn't expect my classmates to have so much dissatisfaction with me. I'm so bad ... thinking about it, I can't help but bow my head and blush.
Seeing that I made a mistake, the teacher came over and said to me seriously, "Modesty makes people progress, while pride makes people fall behind.". How can you make progress if you are so proud? " As a monitor, you should unite to help your classmates. You are so arrogant, how can you be a monitor? However, it would be great if you could correct your mistakes. If you can correct it from now on, you are still a good boy in the eyes of the teacher. The teacher believes you. Don't live up to my expectations. Come on! "From then on, I learned to be down-to-earth, be humble and never be arrogant, otherwise the consequences would be unimaginable.
Don't just please other people's lives. Spoiled parents also like to take care of all the big and small affairs in their children's lives, preferring to be tired for their children rather than working hard. On the one hand, this will make children feel inferior, on the other hand, they will feel that what parents do for him is taken for granted and they don't know how to be grateful. If parents or others don't do what he asks, they will be very dissatisfied. In related articles, there are two kinds of doting. In pampering and doting, parents are children's voluntary "self-extension". They are children's hands and feet, and they are willing to accept their command. Finally, indulgence and doting will cultivate "the enemy of parents." Pampering and doting will lead to no one else in the child's heart. Yuan Rongling, a psychological counselor, said: "If parents don't realize this earlier, they will eventually find that their children are also their hell. Children who grow up in doting often pretend to be very powerful, but in fact they can't escape the three common consequences of doting: dependence. They rely on their parents first and their spouses or children last. He is a hell for his spouse and children, because he only knows how to ask for help and let his relatives pay attention to himself, but turns a blind eye to their feelings. They feel inferior, and they will find that once they leave their relatives, they are nothing. So there will be a serious inferiority complex. But they are used to arrogance and can't accept this inferiority complex, so they will pass it on to others and hurt others even more. Waywardness and parents' doting make them develop selfish egoism, which leads to their serious lack of sympathy. "I want it now" has become their habit.
I am no longer proud of my composition 1. Since my article was published in ningbo evening news, I have become extremely proud! It seems that I am a little writer, but something happened in the winter vacation that made me no longer proud.
On New Year's Eve, my mother and I went to my grandmother's house to celebrate the New Year.
As soon as I entered the house, I read newspapers to my grandparents arrogantly. My grandmother was happy from ear to ear, but my grandfather looked at me proudly, but frowned and said to me, "The world, don't be too proud."
"But I turned a deaf ear to grandpa's words and boasted about selling melons in front of people.
A few days later, my grandfather seemed to read my mind and called the whole family to a meeting. The theme is "I am no longer proud". I drank milk tea and looked at my grandfather next to me. I said impatiently, "The theme is there. Who is the protagonist? " Grandpa said seriously, "It's you.
""well, I said what's wrong with me? " I glanced at my grandfather.
Grandpa nodded to grandma and made a gesture to her. She hurried upstairs and soon came down with a big bag of newspapers and magazines. I looked at it and thought: Grandpa used to be a primary school teacher and hid so many broken things.
I saw my grandfather holding a bag in his hand and said seriously, "You have only published one article, so you are so proud. Look, how many articles have I published? " My eyes are as big as two ping-pong balls. "ah!" I gave a cry.
My mother picked up one of the newspapers and smiled and said to me, "Look, one of my articles is published in the same newspaper as one of your grandfather's!" " "Grandpa also seriously said," the world, you are a third-grade pupil. You know, there is no end to learning. This knowledge is like water in a sponge. All you have to do is squeeze it and it will always be there. "
You have just published an article, and there is still a long way to go.
I nodded thoughtfully, thinking: Grandpa is right, there is no end to learning, and I will never be proud again! 2. I am no longer arrogant. A year ago, I was an arrogant child. I rely on my cleverness, and I always don't pay attention in class. I think I'm great. I can understand and remember what the teacher said, and I am even more arrogant to my classmates. I have never looked down on my classmates with poor academic performance, because I am the monitor and I am arrogant.
And the re-election of the class Committee made me no longer arrogant, and there was a very obvious change ... It was a beautiful night, with orange light and shadow floating.
The students have already voted, and the teacher is counting the votes nervously.
The atmosphere is very tense and serious, but I know very well that the monitor must still be mine this time. What are you worried about? My mouth can't help rising slowly.
The exciting moment arrived, and the teacher stood on the podium and announced: "The election result of this monitor is-XXX!" It's related to my real life and I can't disclose it. When I heard this sentence, I felt as if I had been poured down from my head with a pot of cold water, and my heart was cold.
But I just want to know why. Why can he be elected and I can't? The teacher seems to see my dissatisfaction and let everyone give me advice together.
Hearing the news, everyone said noisily, "She is very complacent!" " ""She is always domineering. I can't stand it! " "She also looks down on some people because they don't study well.
""She is so proud that we can't stand her arrogance! "... hearing these words, I was dumbfounded: I had so many shortcomings. I really didn't expect my classmates to have so much dissatisfaction with me. I'm so bad ... thinking about it, I can't help but bow my head and blush.
Seeing that I was wrong, the teacher came over and said to me earnestly, "Modesty makes people progress, while pride makes people lag behind." How can you make progress if you are so proud? " As a monitor, you should unite to help your classmates. You are so arrogant, how can you be a monitor? However, it would be great if you could correct your mistakes. If you can correct it from now on, you are still a good boy in the eyes of the teacher. The teacher believes you. Don't live up to my expectations. Come on! "From then on, I learned to be down-to-earth, be humble and never be arrogant, otherwise the consequences would be unimaginable.
Modesty makes people progress, while pride makes people lag behind.
"This is a truth of never back down.
It is a shining star, shining in the right direction; Establish a correct direction and build a bridge to success; It is a bridge to success, pregnant with the power of progress.
Before this climb, I was arrogant.
This morning, it was sunny and sunny, and the sparrows on the treetops kept chirping.
Like this excited sparrow, we climbed the mountain happily.
On the way there, everyone was talking and laughing.
At this time, my brother joked: "Do you want to carry it if you can't walk?" Everyone laughed at once, but I'm sure I thought so. I shouted, "No!" "But my brother just kept pestering me." I don't believe it. Why don't we gamble? " "good! "In this way, my brother and I bet that whoever goes up the mountain last will pack up the housework for ten days.
But after a while, we came to the foot of the mountain.
I immediately thought of the scene where I was washing the floor.
Because the mountain is very high, I regret it a little. I knew it wouldn't be so impulsive
But now, the gambling has been finished and the water has been spilled, so we have to bite the bullet and rush.
At first, I rushed in front of my brother. Because of the concept of first come, first served, I step higher and faster than him every time. This is the goal that I must achieve.
But what about my brother? He walked very slowly, and soon he was 108,000 miles away from me. Don't mention how proud I am.
"Wait, ten days of housework is waving to you!" I thought happily to myself.
Halfway up the hill, I began to be out of breath, but I was proud, because I climbed more than half the way before them, and I thought I could have a good rest. Who knows footsteps coming from behind? I thought it wasn't my brother's footsteps, but that's the truth.
"I can't run!" My brother's voice rang in my ear, and I immediately jumped up and ran, but this time he couldn't leave me, and I couldn't get rid of it.
Finally, when he was tired for the second time, he passed me and strode to the top.
When I finally reached the top of the mountain, my brother had finished drinking a bottle of water.
Arrogance is a sign of recklessness; Arrogance is doomed to failure.
Pride, on the other hand, prevents us from moving forward, so we will never make progress. It is not so much our glory as our poison.
"Modesty makes people progress, and pride makes people fall behind.
"This is really good.
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