There is something wrong with mentality
Some girls don't want to fall in love. On the one hand, some girls are very eager for love. On the other hand, she is afraid and has a special fear. Fear of love, fear of strangeness, fear of the unknown. Some girls are used to being single because they are afraid of the next love because of their past injury experience. Many people come down in the process of this subconscious spontaneous escape.
The social circle is too small.
Some girls live a fixed lifestyle every day, and the people they contact every day are people in their own small circle. Because the people you know are limited, you can't meet the right person. If you want to get out of this situation, you might as well take the initiative, get out of your own small circle, take part in more outdoor activities, read more books, or attend more parties. You can make friends or travel to meet more people of the opposite sex. If the opposite sex you like is in such a circle, you might as well establish a channel to contact this group of opposite sex and enter their life circle.
Too conservative and too serious
Some girls are very conservative and serious when they are with boys. When interacting with the opposite sex, you should learn to smile, relax yourself and avoid being too serious. A girl who is too serious, who looks like an interviewer, will put a lot of pressure on the other side, and the other side will not approach you. After a long time, your opposite sex will get worse. Don't talk about marriage in the early days of love. When we have a certain understanding of each other and an emotional foundation, and both sides have this intention, we can talk about the topic of marriage.
I don't know how to show weakness
Some girls look weak on the outside, but they are very independent in their bones. They don't know how to show weakness in front of boys and how to show their little girl side. If a man is around you and feels that he is dispensable, has no satisfaction of self-worth and cannot be your shelter, he will feel frustrated and bored. Learn to show weakness, so that the other party will value you more.
Nowadays, there are more and more older single women. There are many reasons for being single, which may be the influence of the environment, others' reasons or their own reasons. Only by recognizing your own emotional problems and wrong psychology can we better face the road of feelings and collect them as soon as possible.