It is difficult to find a partner now, and the main reasons are as follows:

First, the pressure of reality is high. Regardless of whether you are a man or a woman, real life is very stressful and puts a lot of burden on you. Therefore, when you are looking for a boyfriend or girlfriend, you will deliberately avoid certain things, which brings great obstacles to finding a boyfriend or girlfriend. ;

Second, the requirements are high. This is also due to the high pressure from society, so the requirements are relatively high. Women basically require men to have a car, a house and a deposit. The pressure this puts on men can be imagined.

Why is it so difficult to find a partner?

Nowadays, there are many leftover women and men who just can’t find a suitable partner. Moreover, there are also many divorced women and widowed women. There are more than 30 million singles in China. Not only has the number of rural bachelors not decreased, but the number of singles has also increased. 40 million. Nowadays, many leftover women, divorced women, and widowed women are unwilling to marry. Leftover women are looking for a partner with very high conditions. In the end, they choose to be left alone. In the end, leftover women are not willing to find a partner. Besides, divorced women, once I started looking for a partner, but without keeping my eyes open, I found a scumbag, married a scumbag, and was often abused by the scumbag. The divorced lady finally went to court to file for divorce. The divorced lady suffered a heartbreaking marriage. After the divorce, I would rather live alone, I don’t want another partner, I’m afraid I won’t meet a scumbag again, it’s hard for a widowed woman to find a wife because her family is in good condition, and she’s reluctant to leave home, and a single leftover man doesn’t want to step in and come to live with a widowed woman, so , single men and women, it is really difficult to find a partner, very difficult.

Why am I not interested in finding a partner?

Finding a partner is like making a friend. This friend may require you to treat it more seriously and patiently. Of course, not all your efforts will be successful. If you succeed, the reward will be extremely sweet and worth remembering. .

It is an arduous process for a man to chase a woman. Girls’ love has a higher burning point and needs the strength of a boy to warm and melt it. Sometimes it may take a long time without any gain. As a boy, you must be bold and careful. , it is necessary to be thick-skinned. At the same time, you must take the initiative to express your love when the time comes. Don't be sloppy and grind hard. At least you can't make a business, and you can't be an ambiguous and gentle couple. At least you can still be friends.

It is much easier for a woman to chase a man. A boy is like a matchstick, and he can make a raging fire just by scratching it. If you are not too ugly, once you launch a main attack on boys, you will succeed in nine cases out of ten. The reason why most girls fail to find a partner is actually just waiting for boys to take the initiative, but boys are afraid of being rejected by you. So both of them were waiting, waiting for the flowers to wither. .

As long as you have a sincere heart, all the flowers in the world will smile at you. Efforts always pay off. Tell the people you like what you like, and others will respond to you. Take the initiative, maybe the person you like is already waiting for you.