1. You can blush, but you can't be flustered;
Calm down, calm down again. When embarrassment suddenly appears, instant blushing is inevitable, but don't panic. That doesn't help, and it's easy to make others feel weak.
2. Don't make excuses easily. The sooner you admit your mistake, the easier it is to be forgiven.
Laugh at yourself
Since the embarrassing situation is inevitable, we should show enough courage to face the reality and even directly challenge the embarrassment.
4. improvise. Turn embarrassing moments into opportunities for self-promotion;
Being good at coping with situations can not only make embarrassment less embarrassing, but also provide rare opportunities for self-expression. Li Jun has always been an unknown member of the company. When introducing the company leader to the newcomer, he mispronounced the name of the company general manager. At that time, the scene was quiet and abnormal, and the general manager was unhappy. When he realized this, he immediately turned to introduce himself, and then added: The leader of our company has never been arrogant, but in this company, nothing can be wrong except the name of the leader. The tense scene suddenly eased.
5. Play the fool and put the tangible dilemma in the intangible ignorance;
This is a brazen panacea. It is easy to get rid of the influence of embarrassment. Everyone knows that fools are always laughed at, but there is never an embarrassing moment, because fools have nothing new and he doesn't care. Although we don't really want to be fools, what's wrong with taking some special methods to get out of danger and solve difficulties in special times?
6. Evacuate the scene quickly;
If you can't afford to hide, this is the best policy. If you really don't have the courage and ability to cope with the embarrassment, your best choice is to leave the scene as soon as possible. For people who are naturally timid but extremely sensitive, it is really wonderful to foresee the possibility of embarrassment in advance, or to leave at the first sign of embarrassment. No matter how big the palm force is, it is just a gust of wind, without a stressed face.
7. Turn disadvantages into advantages;
Advantages and disadvantages are always relative. As long as the key points are found, it is not impossible to turn disadvantages into advantages. For a female secretary who just started working, what could be more embarrassing than having two letters sent to the wrong address in the first letter after work? However, Miss Liu, 24, immediately called the customer to apologize after learning the situation, and called the customer all day after the customer refused, which finally touched the other party. These two customers also learned about her serious work attitude through this incident, and will always contact the company's business through her in the future.
8. Transfer embarrassment;
There is a so-called pain transfer method in medicine. When an unconquerable pain is replaced by another pain that is easier to conquer, the former pain often loses its original pain under the influence of the latter. This method is also used for self-regulation in embarrassing moments. Of course, there is also a form of transferring embarrassment, that is, transferring embarrassment to onlookers, but it must be noted that the embarrassment you transfer should be an opportunity for good jokes.
9. Pretend to be psychologically fragile;
People generally sympathize with the weak, and you should immediately overreact at an embarrassing moment, which can be remorse or pain. In short, you must make others look psychologically fragile, as if what just happened has hurt your self-esteem excessively. Under normal circumstances, people will definitely stop chasing you after seeing your tragic situation, and the embarrassment will go away.
10. Give a strong counterattack;
This is the most cautious way to deal with embarrassment. He must first consider the identity of the object, followed by the environment, and then the strength of the counterattack. Because embarrassment itself is not a surprising problem, but a mistake at best, you must find out what your purpose is before you decide to fight back. If the result of counterattack is to free yourself and hurt others, it is best to give up; If the result of the counterattack is happy, you might as well give it a try. This result directly reflects the parties' understanding of each other and their accurate grasp of the counterattack. There is only one purpose: self-interest does not harm others.
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Selected sentences to solve embarrassment
Xiao Kai, I really believe in his manners and emotional intelligence. I have tactfully solved the problem of direct push and solved the embarrassing situation. He will say thank you to the media present at the exit of the press conference, and he will also say thank you at the end of the group interview.
(2) When you feel that nothing is right, don't say anything. When you feel that nothing is right, do nothing. Smile and silence are the best medicine to solve embarrassment and misunderstanding, but of course, the best medicine tastes bitter.
(3) I accidentally saw an interview with Lu Yu. A host kept asking meaningless negative leading questions, pretending to be very attitude and empty in essence. On the contrary, guests are often more educated and thoughtful, and calmly resolve the embarrassment. More and more doubt what is the standard of talk show, in order to let the public know the real life of stars?
(4) What I said when I took these photos is a little blushing now. In order to solve the embarrassment, we all laugh. Now we won't say that kind of overlapping words and sweet words. After a year and a half, I finally didn't feel as miserable as in the first half of the year. Yes, you are mature at the age of 25, and I want to grow up.
(5) Life needs adjustment. No, I'm coming. I often say the wrong thing, and I often don't choose what I say. But you often use jokes to solve embarrassment, which is what I like about you.
My parents are in the outhouse. I want to do sit-ups in my room. I'm embarrassed to do this ... I don't want them to hear the creaking of my bed and the sound of my panting and stomachache, but one way to solve the embarrassment is to do sit-ups and count them out loud. ...
(7) What's it like to take the incumbent to see his predecessor? Several partners will go out to play tomorrow, including my predecessor. I want to take my gift to the appointment. How many people don't know who their predecessor is? My predecessor knows that I brought my current one. I'm worried about my predecessor getting into trouble. Excuse me, how to solve the embarrassment?
(8) In a group of people, I hope I am an unknown person who makes tea and peels fruit for you and listens to your conversation silently. If it's funny, I can laugh, if it's serious, I can frown. If you don't agree, I also want to say something in time to solve the embarrassment: drinking tea. This may not sound like me, but this atmosphere is what I want.
(9) Sometimes, what I say is mostly to resolve the embarrassment, but later I find that I am asking for embarrassment. Talk less and do more. It makes me cold. It's almost high. How can I be cold when summer comes?
(10) Little Rose is my favorite character with super emotional intelligence. She has tried many times to solve the danger and embarrassment in her own way. There are also some means to secretly climb into the bed of the second prince to get him. It is clear that what I want is to be a queen and work hard to achieve it without losing my kindness and hurting anyone. This is really my role model.
(11) High EQ is not just experience, it needs inner enrichment and spiritual prosperity. Because my mind is broad enough to care about trivial gains and losses. Because he is kind enough to hurt innocent people by mistake. And because it is cute enough, it can gently resolve embarrassment.
(12) If one day you and I meet on the road, it is estimated that I will still pick up my mobile phone awkwardly, dial an empty number when I haven't noticed me, pretend to be sweet in my tone, pretend to be happy in my expression, and then walk straight past you. Besides chatting up people, the easiest way to solve the embarrassment is to ignore it, and the easiest way to ignore it is to pretend.
(13) Things that are frustrated in love, frustrated in the workplace and in a bad mood are all blocked. When can I resolve this embarrassing situation and make a wish in my dream? When will everything be all right? Pray, pray with your heart
(14) Sometimes I really appreciate the existence of mobile phones. I just arrived at a place and came early. I don't know where to look and where to put my hands. I took out my cell phone, as if I had a message to call back. A sharp weapon to solve embarrassment.
(15) I don't like drinking, and I avoid freshly squeezed juice. Sometimes if I have to order, I will order a cup of papaya milk without sugar. Although it will be a bit awkward, especially in front of strangers. But it has little burden on the body. Here is a small way to solve your embarrassment.
In fact, it's quite interesting to travel alone ~ at least don't say some nonsense that everyone has always hated, but say it to solve the embarrassment ~
(17) What can solve the embarrassment is a mood and an expression. I like you, but it's a feeling! Have you eaten? But what we really read is not books. Why? Do you love me? Slowly brewing: but what we really write is not words!
Be independent, be strong, learn to resolve embarrassment, crisis and all feelings of self-pity.
(19) Sometimes a smile can solve a lot of embarrassment, but it depends on whether you can laugh in time.
(20) people may have experienced the change of being flattered by others, then being flattered by others, and finally getting nothing, becoming indifferent and rational. I have a bad habit of longing for success. In fact, people need time to melt and forgive. They want to solve the contradiction in one night, solve the embarrassment in one minute and make each other like it in one second. This is unfair to people who are naturally slow-tempered. Therefore, I recognize waiting, long-term love and self-sacrifice.
(2 1) I like you; There is an expression that can solve embarrassment; Nothing to eat: you love me and don't go out to play. No, I am.
(22) A group of people are preparing a restaurant and cleaning it up before the installation. Unfortunately, they met a guest who occupied the toilet, took a shit, opened the door and saw the first thing and said, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, but he said, well, today's toilet is clean, which solved the embarrassment.
(twenty-three) in a hurry, but broke up in discord, maybe that's it! How can we resolve this embarrassing situation!
(24) Watching the Japanese drama "Perfect Divorce", there is a saying that no matter whether you are married or divorced, you are on the road to happiness. Just saying a word will solve the embarrassment of the other party, which is really worth learning.
(twenty-five) and friends who haven't spoken for a year to resolve the embarrassment, there is no eternal friend, no permanent supervisor, and no one who can kill rice and give big red envelopes at the wedding.
(twenty-six) afterwards, but still surrounded by reporters forced to ask questions about love; CCTV host Sa Beining seems to have hosted an activity recently. Sa Beining wants to bypass the media! From time to time, I am thinking about this problem; I have to stick out my tongue to solve my embarrassment.
27. Recently, I'm really annoyed with customers' bargaining, and I'm a little impatient in this situation. Today, a ghost mother asked me if I didn't have lunch and why I was so angry. At that moment, I smiled instead. I haven't met a customer yet, and will help me find the reason. There are so many problems in life that it is always easy to resolve contradictions and embarrassment in another way. It depends on your own attitude and the way you handle things.
28. Every time you appear, it seems that you are growing up, the problem is solved, jokes are used to solve embarrassment, and you are very comfortable with the world. My child, you are making progress every step.
(29) girlfriends are with girlfriends who have broken up for half a month. Neither of them told me how to solve the embarrassment.
I just went to dinner with a friend who sells goods. The waiter came to order. After ordering the food, my friend whispered to me: hey, this waiter is still pretty. I said, yes, clean and capable. Then when the waiter came to deliver the food, my friend told her directly, hello, just now my friend wanted to add you to WeChat, but he was embarrassed to say it. Then I was shocked by the service industry. To solve the embarrassment, I said, you can add one, and I'll sweep you. After adding it, my friend asked me to share her WeChat with him. This fucking routine really caught people off guard. The first time I took the initiative to ask others for WeChat, it turned out to be a routine.
Truth of life: 30 tricks to teach you how to look at people.
1, Law of Trust: Don't trust people who don't trust others.
2, the law of cleverness: the smartest person is the smart person who will hide him.
3, the law of repayment: too eager to repay the kindness of others, is a manifestation of ingratitude.
4. Gift Law: How to give a gift is more important than what gift to give.
5, the law of truth: exposing the truth is the same as hiding the truth, you need to think twice.
6. Law of Bowing: Don't bow, or bow deeply.
7. Law of the Enemy: The enemy's evaluation of us is more real than our evaluation of ourselves.
8. The Law of Trouble: Half the troubles in life are caused by saying things are too fast or too slow.
9, the law of shame: the first time you lie to me, it is your shame; It's my shame to lie to me for the second time.
10, law of thinking: think about what a person said, not the speaker.
1 1, Law of Deception: The people who are most easily deceived are those who think they are smarter than anyone else.
12, the law of stupidity: no one does not say stupid, but people who deliberately say stupid are terrible.
13, the law of commitment: the person who promises slowly will realize the promise the fastest.
14, Law of Modesty: Modesty is the art of letting others discover how great you are.
15, the law of relationship: there are two ways to maintain the relationship, one is mutual cooperation and the other is mutual competition.
16, worship law: We always like people who worship ourselves, but we don't necessarily like people we worship.
17, the law of misunderstanding: telling the truth to those who misunderstand you will usually lead to more misunderstandings.
18, Law of Advise Friends: Advise friends where there are no people, and praise friends where there are many people.
19, praise law: When the enemy praises you, you should think about what you did wrong.
20, the law of rumors: those who will tell you rumors will also tell you rumors; People who are willing to lie for you will lie for you.
2 1, Law of Comment: There is only one way to avoid being commented: do nothing and say nothing, which is not suitable for anyone.
22, the law of imagination: If you find that others are not as good as you think, please don't be angry, because you are not as good as you think.
23. The law of giving: There are two kinds of people in the world: the taker and the giver. The former may eat better, but the latter will definitely sleep better.
24, forgetting the law: don't forget what you should remember, don't remember what you should forget.
25. Law of Silence: Sometimes you have to keep silent to be heard by more people.
26. Law of Doubt: Trust is a virtue, but doubt makes me learn more.
27. Law of Opinions: People who need to listen to others' opinions the most often dislike others' opinions on themselves the least.
28. Rule of Judgment: Judge a person by the questions he asks, not by his answers.
29. Law of Shortcomings: When the left eye sees the shortcomings of others, the right eye should examine itself.
30. the rule of making friends: make friends when you don't need them.
Teach you how to break through and find a way when you have difficulties in thinking.
Teach you how to break through and find a way when you have difficulties in thinking.
Modern people's thoughts are often in trouble, and the anguish of life is mainly reflected in the pressure of survival, social injustice and spiritual pursuit. However, most people don't realize that their involuntary feelings actually stem from their inability to exercise their free will, but are dominated by various anxieties and fears.
Driven by the latter instinct, we often do things that are not in line with our own minds, and then we must quickly find insincere excuses to appease our uneasy hearts. However, due to the long-term thinking habits of exam-oriented education and ideological education, people are not quite sure what went wrong, which led to such a strong sense of unhappiness.
I suggest you find a way out for your soul through the following steps.
First, there are questions.
It is often in the face of difficulties that many people carefully test their deepest weakness: am I doing something wrong? Those who are good at using ostrich avoidance often can't face up to their deep-rooted misconceptions, because it means denying their own value.
But the pain of frustration is also the driving force to help people question. Torture the soul, right? Whether this idea really conforms to my wishes, and then unlocks the stubborn soul. The so-called thorough introspection is to question the value orientation that others and society have loaded on themselves for many years, because questioning is the starting point of thinking.
Second, reading.
Reading is not to show off, not to copy mechanically, but to provide a starting point for internalized introspection and thinking materials. If there is no extensive reading foundation, then people's thoughts will inevitably draw a solid foundation and stagnate.
Reading presents us with extremely diverse knowledge and viewpoints, which makes people no longer limited to their own experiences, experiences and understandings. After critical reading, it is the internalization process of reading that those who choose goodness integrate and construct their own three views.
Of course, getting inspiration from chatting, having an epiphany under a bodhi tree, taking a trip to Wan Li Road, and even watching the sky at night can all provide material for thinking. However, personally, reading is the best way, because it provides more materials than other ways, and you don't need to take chances.
Third, think deeply. When we fully understand ourselves and understand the development law of things, thinking becomes the only way.
Because if you want to find a way out of the soul, you must embark on a journey of thinking. Even if you don't ask for a glimpse of heaven, you can break through life, rebuild the depth and breadth of your thoughts, and get the release of suffering and the happiness of detachment.
There are two ways to think, meditation and keeping a diary.
Through meditation, you can observe how your mind jumps, how to escape anxiety and how to make excuses for yourself. However, keeping a diary can force you to recall what you have experienced, feel the emotions at that time, and reflect on the knowledge you have learned, which is helpful for your self-growth.
You can think according to the idea of finding problems, analyzing problems and solving problems, and hand over answers for your own confusion.
Fourth, the unity of knowledge and action. This is the most important philosophical thought put forward by Wang Yangming, and it is also the key link to truly transform people.
The change of cognition, if it is always an armchair strategist, is even sadder than the ignorant, because they see the dawn ahead, but they can't break through the fog of chaos.
Consciousness needs choice and action to bring about real change, otherwise it is just a castle in the air.
Whether facing procrastination or unknown fear, the practice after questioning, reading and thinking will eventually produce so-called happiness.
For individuals, questioning, reading, thinking and practice are not series steps, but parallel, circular or cross-cutting behaviors. Read with questions, think while reading, practice in thinking, reflect and question after practice, and then continue to find answers through reading and thinking.
Just like the double helix structure of DNA, it keeps circulating and rising until it is reborn freely.
Only by thinking and acting freely, breaking through the framework of the original model, and achieving the unity of knowing and doing, can the heart truly reach the other side of mutual desire.