1. Correctly understand the meaning of making friends: friends are the objects we associate with, and the people who can let us open our hearts and talk to each other except our relatives and teachers. Making friends is our normal need. We should take it seriously, establish a correct concept and values of making friends, understand that friendship is more important to ourselves than money, and more important than the difference between love and making friends, and distinguish what true friendship is, so that it will not be used and become an illegal tool. Also, self-esteem, self-confidence. Only by respecting yourself and keeping your personality independent can you win the respect of others. Think independently when something happens, have your own independent ideas and opinions, and don't follow suit. In communication, we should not only respect other people's opinions, but also follow blindly, thus forming a psychological principle of making friends. ?
Make friends widely: Only by diversifying social things and integrating yourself into a wide range of social fields can we choose our bosom friends and seek friendship. "In a threesome, there must be a teacher!" Everyone has his own strengths and weaknesses. Learn more from his friends and make more friends that are beneficial to him. Try to understand others and let others know you. Friendship is based on emotion, and mutual understanding is the basis of mutual love. So, go among classmates and peers, take the initiative to understand others and let others know about you. In the process of making friends, we should expand the scope of making friends. Only by making more friends and making more friends can we reach out to everyone more widely. Through screening, we can find out the ideal friends of bosom friends. And avoid reducing your friends and forming cliques. ?
3. Pay attention to the principle of making friends: make friends rationally, don't blindly trust, and do illegal things for him for the sake of "loyalty", and ultimately harm others and yourself. After all, "buddy loyalty" is not a true friendship, and it is not worth our blind efforts. However, some students lack this awareness, which leads to disaster: when choosing friends, choose friends who are like-minded and can make progress, and don't make friends by mistake because of temporary interests. ?
4. Self-improvement: Join the society, so as to understand the society, cultivate one's own character and ideological and moral sentiments, learn to control oneself, learn to distinguish right from wrong, and have one's own judgment ability. There are many middle school students around us who go astray because of their weak ideology. In addition, we should treat the education of parents and teachers correctly. Because adults have much richer social experience and stronger judgment than we do, learning to ask them for help will definitely promote their psychological growth. ?
Learn to maintain friendship: To maintain a friendship, you must pay for your friends and be tolerant of them. Try to care about others and give a little love. We should help others sincerely. It is better to give him a hand when he is in trouble than to give him a car when he is rich. Be tolerant of others and strict with yourself. There is no shortage of gold, no one is perfect, it is impossible to ask others to have no shortcomings, and be tolerant of mistakes caused by negligence. Respect his different views, ideas, behaviors and choices from yours. While tolerating others, we should also be strict with ourselves. We should take the initiative to admit our mistakes and consciously correct them. Taking the initiative to admit mistakes will not only damage your image, but also win the respect of others, which is conducive to maintaining friendship.