Don't dwell on the same problem, don't put all your feelings on one person, you still have parents and other friends.
Don't be afraid to do something wrong, even if it is wrong, don't be sad. There are right and wrong in life, not to mention many things. In retrospect, right or wrong doesn't matter.
4. It's normal to have negative emotions, but you should know that this is only a small part of life. Try to stabilize your emotions in the rest of the time.
5. It is normal for that person not to contact you suddenly; It's normal for that person to contact you suddenly. It doesn't mean anything.
6. Speak out if you don't understand. Don't say it when you understand it. Just smile.
7. All troubles are caused by oneself and can only be solved by oneself. Don't cry to your friends, ask them to play ball.
8. You must do what you said, even if it is stupid, it is better than breaking your word.
No matter what happens, don't break the original rules of life and eat and sleep on time.
10. Don't be afraid to do one thing, don't be afraid to get hurt, don't be afraid to say something wrong, don't be afraid to recall the past, and don't be afraid to face the future.
1 1. Whether it is right or wrong, you need a criterion, and your behavior should follow this criterion and be constantly revised according to real life. It is impossible for people who are indecisive repeatedly to please. People who wander between right and wrong are not as positive as those who move from wrong to right.
12. When he said, "Shall we calm down for a while?" Say yes calmly and then hang up. Stop begging, he didn't come to ask your advice.
13. Don't take out everything from your heart, these are the wealth that belongs to you only.
14. Don't talk to a person about people in the same circle, no matter how reliable you think he is.
15. When you don't know what to say to him, don't say anything. Silence has infinite meaning.
16. Do not pursue any results. Everyone has the same result, and that is death.
17. Don't regret. Anyway, the feeling of regret is more terrible than what you did wrong, because it will destroy your self-confidence and self-esteem, and it is likely to make you do more wrong.
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1, don't underestimate anyone.
You don't have that many viewers. Don't be so tired.
3. Be gentle with people and things. Don't lose your temper at will. Nobody owes you anything.
4. It's very painful now. When you look back later, you will find that it is nothing.
5. Break up with someone who is hostile to you. Only when people break friends can they have the best friends.
6. Learn to tolerate people who hurt themselves, because they are pitiful, everyone has their own difficulties, and everyone is not easy.
7, learn to give up, the tighter you pull, the pain is yourself.
8, low-key, trade-offs, there must be gains and losses.
9. Don't try to make any excuses for yourself. No one likes the excuses before mistakes.
10, be cautious and independent, learn to compromise, and stick to your most basic principles.
1 1, giving does not necessarily lead to results. Persistence may lead to more losses.
12, the past cannot be forgotten, but it must be put down.
13, live easily and prepare for the best and the worst.
14, be a simple person and be practical. Don't indulge in fantasy. Don't rock the boat.
15, don't lie, because you will be caught one day.
16, there are too many unknown pains behind the glory of others.
17, and strive to enrich yourself. Don't stop learning. No matter what you learn, language, cooking, all kinds of skills.
18, pay attention to your self-cultivation, you are the child's first teacher.
19, filial piety. It's not just lip service, it's also good to make more phone calls.
20. Love your parents, because they gave you life, and they are also the most selfless people who love you.
2 1, sometimes be realistic and hypocritical, because otherwise, it is difficult to mix.
22. Restrain your temper, and occasionally deliberately silence, because impulsiveness will do things that make you irreparable.
23. Whenever you do something, you should think about it.
24. Never give a friend who has betrayed himself a second chance to betray.
No matter who you are, you have your own limits. Especially trust.
26. Know how to listen to other people's advice.
27. What others say is in your mind, and yours is in your heart.
28. Try not to gossip about colleagues and friends.
29. Believe in Buddhism and cause and effect. In the face of real cause and effect, human power is negligible.
30. Accept the gift that life gives you, whether it is good or bad.
3 1, really understand the meaning of impermanence. When you are in pain, you should think that this pain is not eternal. When you are happy, you should think that this happiness is not eternal.
32. Be happy, cheerful, tenacious, enthusiastic and sincere to people.
33. Read books when you are bored, but you must have your own life goals and plans.
34. Have a clear understanding of human weakness, but believe in sincere love, and always have a simple yearning for love.
Don't rely too much on people other than yourself, because only you won't give up on yourself.
36. Always be full of hope for life and face difficulties with a smile.
37. Read more books and read more.
38. Eat less and eat good food.
39. Gu Long said that girls who love to laugh are not too bad luck.
40. Make more friends and make good friends. A woman must have a girlfriend.
4 1, please remember that the definition of a good friend is: you get along well, and she is happy for you from the heart; You have a bad life, and she is really worried about you.
42. Have a dream, even if it is far away.
43. Try to love someone. Pay, not necessarily gain; No pains, no gains. Don't expect miracles
44. Commitment is a beautiful thing, but beautiful things often don't come true.
45. Everyone has his own distinct views and personality. Don't change others by knowing the way. Similarly, don't be changed by others. If you change, you are not yourself.
46. There is no perfect thing, and there is no perfect person. The key is to know what you want. If you get what you want, you will definitely lose another part. If you want everything, you will get nothing.
47. The most fragile thing in this world is life, and good health is very important.
God is fair to everyone.
49. Don't try to control others and don't ask others to understand you.
50. Live in the present, don't waste your present life thinking about the past or looking forward to the future.
5 1, don't forget your roots, anytime, anything.
52. Sincere, calm, generous, tolerant and normal.
53. Learn to forget. Forgetting is a good thing.
54. Be optimistic, be positive, smile more and look in the mirror more.
Believe what he says, but don't take it seriously.
56. How long did it take you to take care of everything?
57. Don't be smart.
58. Make your own decisions. Be prepared to face the consequences. Remind yourself from the beginning that there is no regret medicine in the world.
59. People who don't like it can respond with a silent smile; The person you like, that's casual, because your love will be unstoppable, unstoppable.
60. Believe in karma! Believe in reincarnation!
6 1, learn to be patient and persistent!
There is no true love in this world ... time can dilute everything.
63. Don't be a hedgehog. If you don't make enemies with others, you won't make enemies with others. No one will stay with anyone for a lifetime. Some things don't need to be remembered.
Sometimes you should learn to listen to the opinions of people around you. More often, you won't get hurt.
65. Forget the past before you have a new beginning.
66. The world is very unfair.
67. Don't rely too much on your friends. Basically, human nature has a bad side.
68. Love is beautiful. Believe in love. If you don't even believe in love, isn't life too bitter?
69. If you want one thing, you will lose another.
70. Pain makes people grow, which is both an opportunity and a challenge for you to make progress. Don't be afraid of painful things, it has another positive effect.
7 1, people are lonely, and the only way to alleviate the pain it brings is to accept it frankly.
72. People who have never experienced it will never understand these truths, but it is good to listen.
73. You can be unattractive or gentle, but you must be honest and kind.
74. Love all beautiful things, praise and enjoy the beauty they bring.
75. When difficulties come, face them with a smile and solve them with wisdom.
76. Have the courage to admit your mistakes and take responsibility for them.
77. Love your family, friends, partners and children. However, you really should live for yourself.
78. Never worry about what happened and what didn't happen. It's no use worrying about what has happened, and what hasn't happened can't be inferred by subjective speculation, it will only increase your troubles.
79. Don't always pour out your difficulties in front of others and expose your vulnerability.
80. Don't think about relying on others, but have goals and pursuits, which have nothing to do with age.
8 1, be a simple person and be practical. Don't indulge in fantasy. Don't rock the boat.
82. Learn to think clearly, understand your own smallness and avoid narcissism. Don't be strong in everything, because it's not as strong as you think!
83. Everyone is an independent individual, and really no one can live without him!
84. Don't overestimate your strength in the collective, because when you choose to leave, you will find that the sun will still rise even without you!
85. Society is hierarchical and many things are unfair. Don't complain, because complaining is useless.
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0 1. If you make a mistake, you should honestly admit it-nitpicking and shirking responsibility will only hurt yourself.
Keep friends at arm's length-only in this way can friendship last.
03. Money pursues people, and people pursue health-with health, are you still afraid of not making money?
04. Don't change careers easily-it's risky to change careers, so it's best not to act rashly.
05. Moderately improve social status-in the job market, people are also a commodity.
Turn dedication into a habit-for yourself in the long run.
07. Expand assets by accumulation-not fast, not too much, not intermittently.
08. Be patient for a while, and be patient when things are better than others.
09. Life is worse than death, which is a win-win situation and healthy competition.
10. Manage interpersonal relationships with the mentality of "sowing"-the earlier seeds are sown, the tougher they are.
1 1. Don't act rashly-acting rashly will only harm yourself.
12. When you meet a devil-type supervisor-accepting his training can make your character more and more tough.
13. Don't argue with the supervisor in public-it will leave you no choice but to leave.
14. Learn new knowledge from people in different industries-remember, ask questions.
15. All difficulties are good-this is God tempering you, with the aim of giving you the heavy responsibility.
16. Do things with the mentality that losing is taking advantage-then you can grow rapidly.
17. Don't talk about your pride in front of depressed people-it will hurt your interpersonal relationship.
18. Don't underestimate punctuality-punctuality is a respect for others.
19. judge people by time-time is the master of inspection.
20. Look at people by asking questions-you can get to know that person by summarizing the information you get.
2 1. Create a friend file-lest others use it and hate it less.
22. Expand your circle of friends-take the initiative and don't wait for others to come to you.
23. Be flexible in making friends-enemies can also become friends.
24. Make friends who like to "fix" you-such friends are your life mentors.
25. Self-recommendation has many advantages-let others see you, know your existence and know your ability.
26. Beware of the sudden warming of friendship-the correct attitude towards this friendship is: don't push and say hello, but reciprocate.
27. Be the second child, not the boss-the boss is not good, and it is easy to become the third child and the fourth child.
28. Be a suitable person-the purpose is to win the respect and trust of others.
29. Exchange "material benefits" for "human benefits"-"material benefits" are temporary and "human benefits" are long-term.
Don't just think about glory-if you enjoy glory today, you may suffer painful consequences tomorrow.
3 1. Find a "food and clothing parent"-that person can reduce your groping time.
32. Find an opponent to follow-follow him and eventually surpass him.
33. Sit patiently on the bench-you are already sitting on the bench. What is there to be afraid of?
34. Apply other people's successful models-other people's successful models can be a guide and give you a direction to follow.
35. secretly think of yourself as a boss or supervisor-gradually cultivate your ability to become a boss or supervisor.
36. Don't be satisfied with the small achievements in front of you-ask yourself: Is this my life?
37. Make yourself an expert in your field as soon as possible-just work hard and grind it into a needle.
38. Don't have ideas that don't meet your talents-you don't meet your talents mostly because of yourself.
39. If you fall, you must get up-if you don't get up, others will look down on you and you will lose the opportunity.
40. Don't make excuses for failure-you should face the failure directly and find out the reason quickly.
4 1. Change the environment or change yourself-it is better to change yourself than to change the environment.
42. Don't fight uncertain battles-life can't afford to be wasted again and again.
43. Think of yourself as your daily homework-because you are not perfect, you will say the wrong thing and do the wrong thing.
44. When keeping a low profile, encourage yourself-don't be lazy.
45. Rely on other people's intelligence to do things-a person's ability is limited.
46. Always have a sense of crisis-don't feel that your life is good and lucky.
47. The leading role and supporting role can be played, and both the stage and the stage are comfortable-in the face of life, you should practice flexible personality.
Learn to control your emotions-this is one of the most important signs of maturity.
49. Be a tortoise, not a rabbit-people with rabbit qualifications are prone to pride, and pride will become a stumbling block on the road to success.
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1. The essence of patience is that if you want to make money cheaply, you can make it. If you want to be shameless, you can be shameless and you can be casual. I will give you whatever I can; I can't give it. You have to invite someone else. As for whether others give it or not, that's your business.
2. Dealing with a hypocrite is not to scold her, nor to expose her, but to let her continue her pathetic hypocrisy and then pretend that she knows nothing. Then slowly, many people will take the initiative to tell you how hypocritical she is.
Dealing with selfish people is not to hate her or ignore her, but to gradually get away from her, from the bottom of my heart, and then pretend that I don't know anything. If she goes to find someone else, then you will find that many people are far away from her.
There will never be anyone you can't live without. Just because you can't leave now doesn't mean you can't leave forever. There is nothing you can't give up. If you don't give up, you may give up first.
Except for parents, there is no one who does not ask for anything in return. Lovers treat you well on the premise of love and harmony, while friends treat you well on the premise of common interests and eliminating loneliness. Not to mention others.
Although it is difficult to live alone, you must learn to be alone and don't rely on others easily. This is to prevent you from doing well when everyone around you is leaving.
7. Pay attention to yourself when you are sick, and don't wait for others to pay attention to you. By that time, you will find that you are already very uncomfortable both physically and psychologically.
8. When a person is studying in a different place, he should learn to communicate with his parents and listen to his elders. Learn to be patient There is nothing you can't stand. No matter how outrageous others' mistakes are, there is no need to punish yourself with others' mistakes.
9. However, when others say it, try to listen carefully to what others say to you. No matter what the original intention is, you can believe it, but you can't respond with all the letters. This is respect for people.
10. Don't test your good friend easily, or you will either be disappointed or have the hat of "psycho+overthinking".
1 1. Don't be sentimental about people easily, even if it is really sentimental. Others may not understand your sentimentality and have no obligation or responsibility. In this case, you want to vent to bring shame and deepen your pain.
12. Under no circumstances can you play with others, and those who play will be played by others. No matter how considerate you are, you are not the best one.
13. Don't rob others' interests, but don't connive at others to rob yourself. This is the principle.
14. There is no need to be jealous of others' achievements, popularity, status, scholarships and so on. Five reasons: 1, others may really pay more than you, but you don't see it. 2, these things can only bring temporary satisfaction, not permanent satisfaction, that's all. 3, there are rules of the game that you can't play, and people who can play are also very tired. If you are inferior to others, you must be superior to others. Wait for the opportunity. 5, don't argue about it, you will have more friends.
15. If you can help others, try to help. Don't force yourself if you can't help.
16. For those who like to oppose you, you should first objectively reflect on yourself, correct yourself and eliminate your own reasons. Secondly, look at how naive she is, which makes her unhappy.
17. For people whose living habits are different from their own, distance themselves a little, and then live a good life without affecting others and asking them to change.
18. Brothers, settle the accounts. Don't make the accounts too complicated. Money is given by parents, not earned by themselves. You should save money.
19. Do small things first, make small money first-accumulate experience for doing big things and making big money.
20. Don't let past failures tie your hands and feet, otherwise you will never achieve great things.
2 1. live like a cockroach-if people have the same toughness as cockroaches, what life can't be lived?
22. rely on strength, not factions-factions are not forever, and strength is what you can rely on for a lifetime.
23. shine by yourself, don't wait for others to polish you-who has the time and mood to "polish" you seriously?
24. Open the road on the mountain and bridge the bridge when encountering water-learn to do what you like.
25. Always run ahead of subordinates-both power-based leaders and friendship-based leaders are not as good as ability-based leaders.
26. "The new official takes office with three fires"-tell others loudly: I am coming.
27. It's only 50 cents, not 1 dollar-you can only get a dollar once.
28. Put down the shelf, the road will get wider and wider-the shelf will only bind your hands and feet.
29. Don't be too absolute-the purpose is to leave room for accidents to avoid failure.
Become an expert in your field as soon as possible-you will succeed as long as you work hard.
3 1. Praise others more-you can make people happy without spending money. Why not?
32. Respect the territorial scope of others-don't cause unnecessary trouble because of negligence.
Don't show your frustration easily-lest people think you are weak and incompetent.
34. The principle of interpersonal relationship is: what you give up, what you get-you satisfy the other person, and the other person will satisfy you.
Don't ignore the problem of losing face. Losing face is the most likely cause of right and wrong.
36. Properly handle the relationship with the villain-don't cling to him or offend him.
37. It's best not to block other people's money-it's best not to block other people's money.
38. Use low-key to solve others' jealousy-jealousy is a fire that will burn a person to death.
You don't have to do everything yourself-there will always be people who are dissatisfied with you.
40. Know and use selfishness in human nature-try to use the selfishness of others to make profits for yourself.
4 1. Follow Mao and he will listen to you-even a person with a big temper, a deep talent and a strong personality can't afford it.
42. It is very helpful to push forward with positive actions-perseverance, hard work and accumulation of ability.
43. Delay prosperity and decline cautiously-many failures are the foreshadowing of prosperity.
44. If everything is ready, the flowers will bloom naturally-as long as you work hard, when the flowers bloom is arranged by God.