Bachelor is a term for those who cannot find a wife. According to census data, the ratio of men to women in our country is imbalanced. There are generally more men than women, so many men are now unable to marry. Daughter-in-law, especially for our friends in rural areas, getting a wife is even more difficult. Families that have more sons are very worried when their sons reach the age of marriage. Firstly, they worry about the money for the bride price, and secondly, they worry about where to find a wife.

The current general trend is that there are more men than women, so it is understandable that the number of singles is increasing. Speaking of singles, recently, the Luchuan County Committee of Guangxi issued a notice requiring all towns to count the number of young and middle-aged unmarried wives. , the main target of statistics is young and middle-aged men. As soon as this notice was issued, it aroused heated discussions among many people. I believe everyone is also curious about it. So what do you think of this move to count the number of young and middle-aged unmarried men? After reading some news reports about this notice, the editor has the following opinions that are worth thinking about. Let’s take a look together.

1. The main contents of the "Notice"

Friends who have read the news reports about this "Notice" should know that the county mainly requires cadres in towns and villages to provide specific During the survey and statistics of young and middle-aged unmarried men, it is necessary to know the reasons why these people are single and to propose solutions. Therefore, whether they are healthy or disabled young and middle-aged unmarried men, they must find out the reasons why they are not married, and finally submit these statistical data to the Luchuan County Party Committee Office.

2. Two questions worth pondering

Even though the release of this "Notice" caused ridicule from many netizens, some said, "Is this going to give birth to a daughter-in-law?", and some said He also said, "Why only count men and not women?" In fact, no matter how you ridicule, it is a fact that there are more men than women. Such specific statistics are more conducive to helping these unmarried men get out of singles. The editor believes that we can consider from two aspects .

1. The general trend is that more men than women.

From the results of the seventh census, we know that the number of men is more than 30 million more than the number of women. But this is the difference in the total number of men and women. If we only count the difference in the number of men and women of marriage and childbearing age, the male population is more than 17 million more than the female population. Judging from this data, there are also a lot of single men. of.

2. It is very rational to count the number of unmarried men

From the fourth census data above, you can also understand that now there are more men than women, which is the general trend across the country. Luchuan County, Guangxi, so the "Notice" issued by Luchuan County this time is a very rational approach in the editor's opinion. The purpose is to find and solve problems. This move is also of great benefit to the balance of our country's population structure.

3. Why is it difficult for young and middle-aged rural men to get married?

It can be understood from the "Notice" that the main purpose is to ask each town to investigate and count the number of young and unmarried men. The editor feels that the main issue is the unmarried men in our villages. Compared with the conditions in the cities, there are still The gap is not small, so no matter from any aspect, the advantages of rural young and middle-aged men are not very big. The following is the editor’s summary of several reasons why it is difficult for young and middle-aged rural men to get married based on some situations around them, namely:

1. Many people in rural areas cannot afford to buy houses and cars

Everyone knows that when getting married now, whether it is urbanites or rural people, the requirements for marrying a wife have become higher, and many women The man is required to own a car and a house, but in rural areas, many single men cannot afford to buy a house in the city. They can only build a house in their hometown. Some women get married without objection, but some women buy houses in the city. Buying a car and a house has become a mandatory requirement, so this is one of the reasons why young and middle-aged rural men cannot afford to get married.

2. Expensive betrothal gifts

Betrothal gifts are definitely indispensable for marrying a daughter-in-law, but in some places the price of betrothal gifts for marrying a daughter-in-law is relatively high. For rural people, it can cost up to 100,000 yuan. Even if the bride price is high, some women’s bride price is hundreds of thousands, which undoubtedly puts a lot of pressure on the men. As we all know, many young people in rural areas are freelancers, so their income is not It is difficult for them to earn more than hundreds of thousands or even hundreds of thousands in a stable job, so this is also the reason why young and middle-aged rural men remain unmarried.

3. Marriage fraud has become a shadow

Everyone knows that there are many dating apps now, and many young people like to make friends and chat on them, and gradually some of them have developed into Some of them even got married, but behind the beauty there is also some invisible darkness. There are also news about some male friends in rural areas who got married to netizens but were deceived into marriage, or during the development of the relationship between lovers. , transfer money to the other party, then it is easy to encounter scammers. There is an example in the editor's hometown. After the man was deceived by the woman, the woman disappeared. So this situation also needs attention. Nowadays, everyone is busy, so there are fewer contacts with women in reality. Online dating has become the first choice for many men. However, after some people have been deceived, they no longer have any reason to play these dating apps. , which is also one of the reasons why young and middle-aged rural men are unmarried.

4. Low academic qualifications

Many young and middle-aged unmarried men in rural areas have relatively low academic qualifications. Some only have a primary school degree, some a junior high school degree, and some a high school degree. In short In today's society, low academic qualifications will also become a criterion for others to choose a spouse, so this is also the reason why many rural men are unmarried.