It's easy to know someone. 365 days a year, too many people pass by us. However, from the moment of being rejected, if you want to keep in touch with someone, whether in the form of letters or in the form of meeting, you can open your heart and discuss with others, but this situation is rare. People often say that a thousand dollars is easy to get, but a bosom friend is hard to find. It is enough to have a bosom friend in life, and we should treat them with the same mind. Indeed, friends can make friends. After becoming bosom friends, they care about you, love you, comfort you when you are in trouble, bless you when you are successful, remind you when you are complacent, and encourage you when you are discouraged. It is already very rare. I think no one will be unwilling to make such friends all his life. A good friend can decorate your life, let you appreciate a rich emotional level, a colorful life, be more energetic and affirm the value of life.

In order to find friends and confidants in the vast sea of people, apart from the indissoluble bond (that is, this person and this opportunity here and now), the most important thing is to rely on their own cultivation and efforts, just like planting fruit trees and eating fruit first. Friends will not come to you for no reason, nor will they become bosom friends with you for no reason. To get friends, we must first make ourselves an easily appreciated person, which of course includes appearance and manners. But more important is a person's quality and cultivation, such as broad-minded, understanding and so on.

It is also important to keep a positive attitude after making friends. If a friend appreciates you very much, he cares about you and loves you very much on various occasions, at all times and under all circumstances; And you just enjoy this friendship comfortably and warmly, but you don't know that you should repay him with the same sincerity; Then this friendship, which would have flourished, may give up halfway. Only by giving your heart to each other can you get a lifelong friendship, so the ancients said: one hundred people can't get one person with one heart, and one person can get a hundred people with one heart.

It is important to be sincere in making friends, and to have a heart without regrets. I hope to make a friend who was born for you and died for you. First of all, I must have the quality to do anything for my friends. If you can't do this to your friends, don't even think about it! At the same time, we must trust again. We can't imagine that a man who breaks his word will have real friends. Confucius said, "If people don't believe, I wonder if they can!"