If you have such a friend in your life, of course you will be very happy and happy. What are the following qualities of a loyal friend? 1. Use actions to protect you

I saw a pair of very cute little sisters on Zhihu. One of them wrote an article and wanted to increase the number of readers, so she told her good friend, and the result She almost didn't get killed, but her good friend left a message under the article:

With 100 likes, I live broadcasted eating cakes, smashing rocks on my chest, splitting durians with my bare hands, banging bricks on my forehead, Copy the Chinese dictionary, pick up the sword with bare hands, and call yourself 8,000 palms.

How come you don’t have a hundred likes for such a lovely friend? Many people are willing to like this message just because they see that this young lady has a little sister who protects her so much, for their friendship, and for their ability to support each other. Who really wants her friend to punish herself. Even if there are less than 100 likes, it doesn't matter. Just having such a loyal friend is worth a fortune and cannot be exchanged for anything.

Because the older you get, the more lonely you become. There will be fewer and fewer true friends, and more will be friends with whom you have interests. The world is prosperous, and everyone is here for profit. The world is full of hustle and bustle, all for the benefit of others. These friends come because of profit and leave because of profit.

A true friend will not. Whenever you need him, he will be there. He will not let you fight alone. He will inject a light into your dark night, give you faith, and give you the courage to go. Facing the chaos of this world.

2. Tightly hold you by the hand

A true friend can tease you, but will also hold you tightly when you go astray and drag you back to the right path. They don't know how to use nice words, but they can find the shining points in you. But when your behavior is biased, I would rather offend you than watch you sink deeper and deeper. He is both a critical friend and a good teacher.

My friend Liangzi was once a famous poor student in school. At that time, he suffered from contempt and ridicule and had no real friends. Because his parents were divorced, he had no father, and no one gave him the right guidance on how to make friends, so he hung out with gangsters outside school all day long, and relied on force to maintain his relationships with his classmates.

You can imagine how lonely he was in school at that time. Until the second semester of the second grade of junior high school, a new student was transferred to the class, who is now his best friend. This is the only classmate who is willing to associate with him, Xiaodong. Xiaodong has excellent grades and is sincere in his treatment of others. Many people are willing to be friends with him. Everyone warns him not to associate with Liangzi, a gangster, as he will be led astray. But Xiaodong told them: Liangzi is not bad in nature, but he is too isolated and can only rely on force to maintain his position in the hearts of others.

Later, Xiaodong actually talked to Liangzi and asked him whether he believed in himself in the eyes of others or in his own eyes. Liangzi didn't understand what it meant at the time, but Xiaodong told him sincerely: If you are defined by others in the eyes of others, then you will always be a little gangster and live a life that can be seen at a glance. If it is you in your own eyes, you have to work hard to stimulate your good sides, such as hard work, motivation, seriousness, diligence...and to do this, you have to stay away from the people who have influenced you, such as those little gangsters outside. . If you are willing, I am happy to help you. Whether it is study or life, I will be with you. If you don't want to, just continue to be a gangster in the eyes of others.

This is the first time someone has said these things to Liangzi openly and honestly. No one has ever told him before that there is anything wrong with him and he only talks bad things behind his back. Liangzi was very moved at the time. From then on, he slowly found his true self and learned from Xiaodong. In the third grade of junior high school, he was rated as a student representative by his teacher and gave a speech on the stage, talking about the reasons for his transformation and the motivation for improving his grades...

Later, Liangzi was admitted to high school as he wished, and then went to a pretty good university in the province. . Now that I have a stable job, every time I talk about my current life, I never forget to mention Xiaodong.

If Liangzi had not met Xiaodong, maybe he would have accomplished nothing now. He would have followed his friends outside school, doing wrong things that he was not even aware of, and spent his life in a muddle. Go down the path of crime.

The biggest difference between true friends and fake friends is that they never require you to be loyal or repay, nor do you need to be heroic, nor do you need to be strong. They just need you to be honest with yourself and be your own number one. Real friends have a pair of piercing eyes that can quickly take you away from monsters and ghosts and back to your true home.

Three to feel you with my heart

Balzac once said: The spiritual sense of a true friend is as sensitive as a dog’s sense of smell. They can feel the hurt of their friends and guess what they are feeling. The reason for the injury is always on my mind.

There was a time when I was very depressed and had no interest in the world. Everything looked gray. After my friend found out about it, he kept guiding me to talk about my inner troubles, and silently acted as my audience and my trash can. When it comes to being angry, they share the same hatred with me and wish they could solve all the problems for me.