People with strong social skills have many friends. Similarly, you are not good at communication. You are always alone and have no smile on your face. No one dares to come near you.
People should make reliable friends, which is good for our career and cultivation. So, how should we make reliable friends in our daily life?
First, you should remember that looks are not boring. Only people who are hypocritical, dishonest, disrespectful, impolite, arrogant, boastful and idle are the most disgusting.
Second, the blood relationship is different, so we should try our best to expand our circle of friends. Besides relatives, colleagues, neighbors, fellow villagers, and even distant relatives in the same year can be regarded as friends, which is also in line with the trend of the times. After all, as the saying goes, "A distant relative is better than a close neighbor."
Thirdly, smile is the most lethal secret weapon when communicating with people. Your smile can make the other person relax their vigilance and become friends with you soon.
Fourth, when others speak ill of others in front of you, you can't go along with them. If it is your friend, you should trust your friend. If you don't confirm this, you just smile.
Fifth, obey the boss reasonably. Although some people say that there are no friends in the workplace, it depends on how you know that your boss is actually a friend and only knows how to respect his status and authority.
Sixth, talk about your boss and your subordinates. You should sincerely care about your subordinates. If you can treat your subordinates as friends, they will surely become your right-hand man and gain more trust and support.
Remember to insist on saying good things about others behind their backs and praise them more. Don't worry about whether this will reach others' ears. After all, what you said is not bad.