According to Mozi's relationship theory, you should be cautious in making friends, whether in the workplace or in the officialdom. For those who can't be close friends, we should pay attention to keeping a proper distance. There is a short story in the article Mozi Dye. Mozi passed by a dyehouse and saw the shopkeeper put wisps of white silk into the dyehouse, which changed color instantly. In fact, people, like silk, are originally pure, but when they are put into various vats, their essence will change.

I ching also said that if you get close to the wrong person, how can you not hurt yourself? This is a warning to us that we must choose our friends carefully. The workplace is bottomless, but making friends can't stop. Is to stand still and never make progress.

So what kind of friends should you make? There are three kinds. The first is an honest friend. When you are complacent, he will throw cold water on you and wake you up. When you are frustrated and unhappy, he encourages you and makes you feel warm.

The second is an honest friend, who is more responsible and will not easily betray his faith. When you rise, he may not be with you. When you sink, he is always by your side.

The third is a knowledgeable friend. This kind of friend has a flexible mind and a broad mind. He can influence you, promote your progress, help you constantly improve yourself and improve yourself, so as to achieve career success.

People should have friends all their lives and meet different friends at different stages. In terms of career, without friends, there is definitely no rich interpersonal resources, which is not conducive to self-development. The water in the workplace is deep, so you must keep your eyes open and find your best friend.