Classmate, this kind of thing can't be done casually. There will be many grievances if you can't make ends meet. Of course, what you want is how to do it, so I won't say much. . .

I suggest you enrich and improve yourself in all aspects. A person with charisma will enhance each other's goodwill. You can read more meaningful books and taste tea to cultivate your temperament. You must pay attention to your temperament. A person without moral cultivation will not have many friends.

As for the communication process, you should be more tolerant. Of course, it doesn't make you weak, but more tolerant. But there must be principles, and it must be remembered that the issue of principles cannot be ignored. Also, you need to adjust the atmosphere. If two people are like "uh-huh, oh-oh", how can they hit it off? People with a sense of humor are bound to win favor. You can watch more jokes, (ahem ~ be careful, don't H).