Dress formally, but not mechanically, just like some professional women. White-collar clothes are ok. Don't choose too bright colors, light colors or grayish colors (not gray, but generally plain colors), and don't be too playful and cute, because they will be less stable. Styles can only contain a little of the current fashion elements, but not too much-for example, if the long green trench coat is popular this year, you can buy a long black one according to your specific temperament (the popular element is trench coat, but don't buy green one, it's too tacky, it's not good to have it on the street). Remember not to decorate yourself too flashy, make up too much, dress too brightly or be too modern, which will make you look frivolous. It's good to have light makeup and decent decoration. -I feel better aesthetically because I am an art student, and I feel better aesthetically or in color. The more tasteful people are, the less they will exaggerate themselves in clothes and appearance. To mature, they must first calm themselves down, but it doesn't mean that they are old-fashioned and have no youthful strength. Being calm should be a little bit like the popular elements I mentioned.
It is best to wear a pair of high heels. Although they are just a pair of shoes, they can change a lot of temperament. Walking in high heels will become a success. Don't walk too fast in high heels, the body range is too large, it should be equivalent to half a step of walking at ordinary times, and the upper body should be stable and don't shake. It's best to wear a lady's handbag or a backpack with one shoulder (depending on the clothes)
Don't shout loudly in manners, speak confidently and fluently, as long as the voice can be heard by the other party, and don't be timid and be confident. Don't walk and do things in a hurry, but implement them step by step. Sit in a dignified manner, with your legs naturally close together, your hands naturally on your legs, and your upper body sit up straight but not too stiff. Smile when talking with people, because it shows confidence and politeness. Speak softly and politely, and talk less about common sayings and dialects.
Almost all these things will change a lot if you do them. These things are easy and quick, and the effect is good. I changed from a pure tomboy in high school to a steady senior. I believe you will do better. I wish you success-it is best to enrich yourself from the basic knowledge after the emergency, so that you will be a real mature woman! ! Come on! !