1. Seize every opportunity to make friends with everyone who is worthy of our friendship. Everyone you make friends with can tell you some secrets, some unheard-of things that can help your future and strengthen your life. No one can discover himself alone, others are always his discoverers!
2. It is really a great misfortune to miss the opportunity to interact with someone who is better than ourselves, because we can always get many benefits from this person.
The greater, better the quality, and more types of energy a person absorbs from others, the greater the person's power. Assuming that he has many contacts with his peers socially, mentally, and morally, he must be a powerful person. On the contrary, if he cuts off the relationship between people and me, then he will definitely become a weak person.
3. Participate in various group activities extensively. Participating in sororities, training camps, seminars, summer camps, winter camps and other activities with similar interests are group activities where many people come together, even if you are not interested. It would be better for Nong to participate actively.
Because such activities create a lot of networking opportunities. For example, some people who don't drink drink a little bit, and they pour out all their inner thoughts, and they become good friends from then on. If you always say rejections like "What's the point of all the fuss", then no one will invite you again in the future.
4. Make good use of opportunities to cooperate with others. The process of cooperating with others is also the process of making friends, which provides a good opportunity to expand the scope of communication, because having the same career is a prerequisite for finding close friends.
5. People who cultivate their curiosity, hobbies and interests are easy to make friends with all kinds of people. If a person can play poker, dance, swim, skate, play ball, play chess, etc., and has more hobbies, he will have more opportunities to "have fun" with others and make friends.
Even if you are not good at a certain aspect, if you show strong interest, win the favor of the other person, and affirm his characteristics, you can also trigger a buzz.
Be curious, go to the group activity room, and do activities together no matter who invites you. Go if you are interested, and go if you are not interested. Both boys and girls should participate with enthusiasm. Only in this way can people feel your charm and create a happy atmosphere.
6. Don’t let personality differences become obstacles. As the saying goes, birds of a feather flock together and people flock together. People who have similar interests are easy to get close to; if not, they are easy to alienate. But remember, being social and choosing your friends are not exactly the same thing. In the social circle, more people are not friends, or just ordinary friends. Therefore, in the process of social interaction, do not use the conditions for choosing friends or even close friends as criteria. All people with different interests and personalities should be rejected.
It is best to make new friends in your social circle who are very different from you. There are differences between friends in terms of knowledge structure, interests and hobbies, life experiences, temperament and personality, etc., which helps both parties to have a broad understanding of various social aspects. It is a blessing to have new friends whose opinions, even if they are very different from your own, can supplement and enrich your thinking.
7. Create your own opportunities for communication. You need to push yourself all the time, try to find opportunities to show your abilities, let others know more about yourself, and then build a relationship of mutual respect and trust.
There are many skills in making friends, this is only a small part. If you can explore and experience more from your current life, you will understand that making friends is a very good thing, haha
I hope some of my opinions can be helpful to you, and I wish you good luck.