Good friends: friends are straightforward, friends forgive, and friends listen more.
There are three good friends and three bad friends, selected from chapter 16 of The Analects. The original text is: Confucius said: "The winner has three friends, and the loser has three friends. Friends are frank, friends forgive and friends listen more, which is beneficial. Friends will be broken, friends will be soft, friends will be destroyed, and friends will be damaged. "
Confucius said, "There are three kinds of beneficial friends and three kinds of harmful friends. It is beneficial to make friends with honest people, honest people and knowledgeable people. It is harmful to make friends with flatterers, people who flatter on the surface, people who slander behind their backs, and people who are good at rhetoric. "
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Other corrections of "three friends for the benefit, three friends for the loss";
"The Analects of Confucius Ji's Chapter": "Friends are easy to make, friends are soft, and friends are hard to make."
Traditional translation:
1, "It is harmful to make friends with flatterers, people who flatter on the surface and slander others behind their backs, and people who are good at rhetoric."
"Flattery" and "superficial flattery" have similar meanings, and both need "rhetoric" to implement. Three kinds of people are easily confused into one kind of people, and there is no fundamental difference.
It is harmful to make friends with selfish people, smooth people, and eloquent people.
"Bian Bi" translates as "selfishness". What does the word "variable ratio" mean? What does the word "monarch" mean? The connotations of "wit" and "rhetoric and eloquence" cross each other. "tact" requires rhetoric and eloquence, and "rhetoric and eloquence" are generally more tact, so there is no essential difference between the two people.
What's more, it is rhetoric, which only expresses the meaning of "rhetoric" and ignores the meaning of "flattery".
It is harmful to make friends who like crooked ways, are good at swinging from side to side, and like flattery (Liu Xiaofeng Huojiali).
"Development" means circuitous, circuitous, circuitous. "Convenient repair" means taking repair as convenience and taking "crooked ways" as convenience, which means "liking crooked ways". Guangya: soft and weak; Can't be independent, swing from side to side. "Kindness and softness" means "being good at swinging from side to side". Shuowen: "Hey, that's smart and likable." "Toilet" means taking it as a convenience, that is, "I like flattery".
Baidu Encyclopedia-gain three friends, lose three friends.