To make friends with people, it is important to be able to have a heart-to-heart conversation and get to know each other.
First, be true.
Only by being true, telling the truth and doing practical things can we win people's trust. It is better to have many good friends than to have a lot of wealth. Good friends are reassuring. When you get along with such people, you don't have to worry that things are not settled, let alone that there is no response to the news. They go around the world with a sincere heart. If you are sincere, they will treat each other with heart.
When dealing with people, we should look at the lowest point of character. Making friends depends on whether the other person has the ability to "reassure people". Those who do not change their true colors in prosperity and adversity are true and reliable enough.
The second is understanding.
The best friend is the kind of person who doesn't like to talk much, but can connect with you closely. A true friend never needs to please, let alone contact every second. But when you need him, he will be there; You don't have to say much, he can understand.
Such a person has a delicate mind, understands what you are thinking, and is a true soul mate. People come and go in the world, some people pass by without leaving a trace, but some people can walk into your heart. To make friends with people, it is important to be able to have a heart-to-heart relationship and be intimate.
The third is to be correct.
I planted a pot of green radish recently. Despite careful cultivation, leaves will turn yellow. After consulting professional friends, I decided to replace all the green flower soil and turn it into more fertile flower soil. Unexpectedly, after a period of time, the green radish became full of vitality.
A closer look shows that the green radish is like ourselves, while the flower soil is like our friends. What kind of friends you choose is what kind of life you choose.
A true friend, warm and powerful, will not live up to his good mood and will not waste good time. For the rest of your life, please be close to a friend who often laughs.
The fourth etiquette
People live in this world, no matter how poor they are, they can't cheat friends, and no matter how bitter they are, they can't live without a bottom line. To be a man, you should know how to put yourself in the other person's shoes.
It is true that friends should be people who help themselves in times of crisis. But even if the relationship is good, we should know how to be polite and keep our own boundaries. To be a man and do things, we should put "courtesy" first and "virtue" for the public.
Fifth, be good.
To make friends, I am most afraid of meeting people in front of me and people behind me. This kind of person, on the surface, chats happily with you, then turns around and speaks ill of you, and his character is extremely poor. They have too many calculations in their hearts, and they don't care about your efforts or your tolerance. When you meet such a person, you must stay away as soon as possible.
A true friend should be kind and grateful. They are not smooth, but a kind of kindness that pushes others. With such friends, there is not so much suspicion. Speak frankly and have something to talk about.
A true friend, everything you say and do is for your own good. There is a famous philosophical saying: "Tell me who your friend is and I will know who you are." In this world, some people have lost their treasures, and some people are silent and enthusiastic.
Fortunately, we have the right to choose our friends and optimize our lives. On the road of life, I wish you are surrounded by kind and loving friends and have beautiful and useful voices in your ears.