Second, treat people equally. Leading cadres should conscientiously implement the party's mass line, unswervingly rely on the masses, adapt to the new characteristics and requirements of mass work, do a good job in mass organization publicity and education, learn from the masses with an open mind, serve the masses enthusiastically, and accept their supervision sincerely. Improve the system of serving the masses, and give full play to the leading, promoting, supervising and guaranteeing roles of the Party organizations and party member in serving the masses. To make friends with the masses, you have to come out of the small world and take the initiative to join the masses. If you close your office and conference room all day, climb Wenshan to Shanghai and be busy sending them to see you, it is equivalent to imprisoning yourself in a closed and narrow world, and it is difficult to get in touch with grassroots cadres and grassroots people. How can you make friends with the masses if you don't know what the people below are doing, thinking, saying, asking or asking questions? Although some leading cadres have gone down, they are arrogant, arrogant and arrogant, and the masses are daunting. Naturally, they can't make friends Friends mean empathy, empathy and equality. Therefore, to make friends with others, don't talk as a leading cadre or strongman, but must deal with others as comrades or students, treat others equally and be approachable.
Third, there must be a heart-to-heart relationship. Mencius said, "Knowing the other is important, knowing the other is important." People are emotional flesh and blood, not machines. They need the care and consideration of others, especially leaders. Sometimes a kind greeting and comforting word will warm his heart immediately. Especially when he has any problems in thought and difficulties in life, he needs the help of leading cadres from the heart. In this sense, leading cadres should have human feelings. No one wants to make friends with a cold, inhuman and uncaring leading cadre. If a leading cadre always closes his inner world, the masses will never know what you are thinking and can't hear a word from your heart, then no one will give your heart to you. It can be seen that if you open your heart to the masses and tell them the troubles, difficulties and your own difficulties in your work sincerely and frankly, the masses will understand you, support you, help you with ideas and ways, and your work will be better. Only by insisting on asking questions about politics, needs and considerations for the people, fully considering the interests and affordability of the masses in decision-making policies, coordinating the interests of all parties, doing a good job in conforming to public opinion, solving worries and benefiting the people's livelihood, and letting the people enjoy the fruits of reform and development, can we carry forward the party's fine style of work and maintain the flesh-and-blood ties between the party and the people.
Fourth, we should trust each other. On the one hand, as a leading cadre, the work of subordinates should be strict and meticulous. But outside of work, they are no longer subordinate, but all members of society, and their personalities are equal. So don't always put on airs as a leader outside class, which will make people stay at a respectful distance from others and be difficult to get close to. Try to spare some time to participate in some mass activities outside work, such as chatting, playing chess, playing ball, playing cards, dancing and so on. In this way, the masses will feel that leading cadres are inseparable and intimate with them; At the same time, leading cadres can also be familiar with the situation, understand the masses, master social conditions and public opinion, and achieve multiple goals. On the other hand, leading cadres are the people's job and must understand the psychology of the masses. In this way, we need to learn some psychological knowledge, so that we can consciously grasp and apply the law of people's psychological changes and do a good job in people's ideological work with a clear aim. Leading cadres should make friends with the masses and be familiar with their language. Otherwise, if you speak in a bureaucratic way, you may not be able to get along with the masses. Language is a tool for exchanging ideas. If leading cadres and the masses don't have a common language, they can't communicate their feelings, and it's even harder to make friends. Therefore, if leading cadres want to make friends with the masses, they must make some efforts to familiarize themselves with the languages of the masses and communicate with them in the language forms that the masses like.