In work and life, there are a lot of dinners and dinners. I have compiled some dinner information for you below, hoping it will help you.

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1 Learn to find the most prestigious person on the wine table;

Such people are generally invited, mostly middle-aged, successful in their careers, or, to put it bluntly, generally fawned on.

The target of your boss or host is him. As for the other guests, they are just foil.

Your boss may let you go, but if you can achieve unexpected results, you will definitely be reused in the future.

You can only qualify if you drink with the guests, but if you drink with the target guests, that's what the boss wants.

So, find such a person first.

2 Active drinking:

My father said that on the wine table, two kinds of people are most afraid, one is people who can't drink, but such people are generally rare; Few people can't keep drinking. After all, "fools" are rare.

When you are at the wine table, people come to persuade you to drink, usually because your sense of existence is too weak, or your performance is unqualified.

Since everyone wants to drink, passive drinking is better than active drinking.

After the boss makes a toast, he drinks directly with the target.

First, if you take the initiative, the other party must drink; Second, you have the initiative. You can say something first. For example, the XX leader has been in poor health for the last two days, but you are here. I must drink this wine, but I can't drink too much, so I propose a toast to you first. This not only gives the leader enough face, but also tells others that I won't drink much after this cup of wine today.

Usually after this, even if the task is completed, there will be a few drinks afterwards.

3 learn to chat:

Father said that many times, the boss brings people, one is to accompany the wine, and the other is to hope to have a topic to talk about. For example, my father always takes his driver with him when he goes out for a drink. This man is very talkative and talks about everything. People from different parts of the world, astronomy and geography, real-time current affairs, gossip news and short parents can all make the wine table lively.

Therefore, my father often jokes. Although he was my dad's driver, he became a driver after drinking.

So at the wine table, you should learn to chat, but you can't talk to these old men about cosmetics, clothes and entertainment circles, so talk about your children! This is definitely a killer. Talk about education, schools and grades. Most of them have children at this age. The younger said milk powder, the older said going to school, and the older said which high school or even university to take the exam. If they are about the same age, then talk about the future.

My dad said that in general, leaders are willing to talk like this, followed by chatting with you, and people next to them will not have time to persuade wine.

Therefore, when you are on the wine table, your seat is also very particular, so it is best to be close to the leader. Adjacent to or apart from people.

4 learn to fight:

In general, the above strategies can basically help you deal with most wine scenes.

Father said, but there are always a few who like to persuade wine and flirt with little girls.

Method:

If this person's reputation is abroad, you can communicate with the leader before drinking. For example, last time he was controlling, for example, he always liked to steal money or something. If it weren't so important, the leader wouldn't keep forcing you to attend such a dinner table. For a leader who doesn't protect his subordinates, you can consider changing leaders or changing jobs. Of course, you must give yourself a position.

But if you really want to go. Then we should be prepared for war.

Drinking is the most taboo to mix wine, especially beer and red wine, or medicated wine and red wine, which has a bad taste and is easy to get drunk.

On the wine table, besides a cup of green tea and a cup of yogurt, eat more vegetables. Then when drinking, estimate how much the other person has drunk, and then seize the opportunity to drink with the other person who has just finished drinking.

Mix more wine depending on whether the other person doesn't like it. Moreover, when you are slightly drunk, you'd better say something drunk intentionally or unintentionally, for example, XX, you.

You always feed the little girl like this. Do you have any intentions? Or, XX, you see, I'm not married, and I'm always bothered by you. People who want to marry me in the future, like me, don't want me.

This confrontation several times, the other side will be well-advised, even if you are not well-advised, your leader also knows.

Finally, it is my sister's experience.

There was once a leader who liked to water the little girl very much, and the other party also liked to water the little girl very much. My sister said, one: no anger, no anger; Two: since you want to drink, drink well. You can let the other person drink a glass of white, drink a glass of red or beer yourself, and so on. No matter how good the alcohol is, it is useless. Although self-harm is 800 yuan, it can also make the other person uncomfortable.

5 learn to protect yourself:

Whether you are drunk or not, before you leave, you should say hello to your relatives and friends and tell them the address and box number of the hotel.

Whether it's an impromptu dinner or an appointment. You must do this to protect yourself.

My sister was once taken to a temporary drink by a small leader, and she didn't have time to tell her boyfriend and my dad. Because she left her cell phone in the car, there was no contact. My dad took someone directly to the hotel and took my sister away, which embarrassed everyone present. The leader also apologized to my sister afterwards.

According to my father's original words, people who drink can't be treated as human beings, and everything is normal. So many people become animals after drinking wine, whether they are gentle scholars or weak scholars during the day. So be sure to protect yourself, especially girls.

6 learn to drink:

This is another story, but it is definitely a way.

After my sister works, my father always lets my sister drink a little red wine or red bayberry soju when eating at home every day.

Moderate drinking is beneficial, because work needs it, so it is necessary to practice drinking.

Don't drink too much at a time, take one sip of white wine and two sips of red wine1~. Don't spell wine, take your time, take a sip of wine, eat a bite of food, talk more and go to the toilet more. The wine table is bigger, so you can walk more. Drinking red wine can eat more beef, drinking white wine can drink more nuts, drink less soup, and eat less cold dishes after drinking, which is not good for your stomach. If you wear makeup, you can go to the toilet between drinks and put on more blush. Show blushes.

7 don't be a hero:

This is my father's advice to me, as well as to those amazing girls.

On the wine table, don't try to be brave and show off and be provoked by others, let alone say "you can't do it" or "so-and-so can't do it, and the capacity for drinking is too poor". My dad said he had met too many young people. On the wine table, he is in good health because he is young. A few words later, he drank there, but he felt uncomfortable afterwards. In fact, others don't care too much.

My father's original words, either you are not drunk and you can drink whatever you want. He has met three such people, one is in a high position in the provincial capital, the other is a big shot in an energy enterprise, and the other is the commander of a group army. No matter how awesome others are, there are ways to make them fall.

Table entertainment rules

Rule 1: Although the wine table is affectionate, it is boring; Love is shallow, lick it. " But don't say it while drinking.

Rule 2: Keep a low profile, curl your hair and never fill it up as soon as you get on the wine table.

Rule 3: Leaders will drink with each other before it is their turn to respect each other.

Rule 4: You can be respected by many people. Never be respected by many people unless you are a leader.

Rule 5: Respect others by yourself. If you don't clink glasses, how much you drink depends on the situation. For example, the drinking capacity and attitude of the other party must not be less than that of the other party. You should know that you respect others.

Rule 6: Respect others by yourself. If you clink glasses, say, if I finish drinking, you will get pregnant.

Rule 7: Since you are in a humble position, remember to add more wine to the leader. Don't blindly drink for the leader, just replace it, and pretend that you want to drink because you really want to drink, not for the leader. For example, leader A can't drink enough. Beating around the bush can stop people who want to worship leader A.

Rule 8: Pick up the beer glass, grab the glass with your right hand and put it on the bottom with your left hand. Remember that your cup is always lower than others'. If you are a leader, you should be sensible and don't put it too low, otherwise how can you be a person below.

Rule 9: If there is no special person present, you'd better touch the wine in the right order, and don't favor one over the other.

Rule 10: clink glasses, make a toast and make a statement. Otherwise, why the fuck should I drink your wine?

Rule 1 1: Don't talk business at the dinner table. After drinking, the business will be almost the same. Everyone knows that, otherwise people will not be free to drink with you.

Rule 12: Don't pretend to be crooked, say something wrong, do something wrong, don't plead, and consciously punish the wine is the last word.

Rule 13: If there is not enough wine, put the wine bottle in the middle of the table and let others fill it themselves. Don't be silly to pour wine one by one, or what should the people behind you do if they don't have wine?

Rule 14: There must be a glass of wine at the end, so don't leave your glass empty. You can't run away ~

Article 15: Be careful not to make a slip of the tongue after drinking, don't talk big, don't be rude, don't spit everywhere, don't throw chopsticks, don't point, don't drink soup, don't fart and burp, don't go to the toilet without stopping you.

Rule 16: Don't say "I can't drink" when drinking, lest others call you hypocritical. Believe it or not, people can really tell if they can drink.

Rule 17: The leader drinks with you to give you face. No matter how much the leader tells you to drink, do it yourself first. Remember, put your hands and glasses down.

Rule 18: peanuts are a good thing for drinkers. It is essential to keep a clear head and ask questions after drinking. A cup of yogurt, a cup of hot water and a hot towel all show your concern.

If you can't drink while eating.

1, do not take the initiative to attack, and implement the strategy of defending as the attack;

2. Put two big cups in front of the table, one with white wine and the other with mineral water, drink small glasses and drink water frequently. When the host and guest on the wine table are basically drunk for 8 minutes, they can take the initiative to attack and replace the wine with water;

3. After toasting, don't swallow it immediately, find an opportunity to wipe your mouth with a napkin and spit out the wine in the napkin;

4. Eat some fat and starch foods at the bottom first, and it is not easy to get drunk when drinking;

5, master the rhythm, don't drink too much at once;

6, don't drink several kinds of wine, especially easy to get drunk;

7. When serving dishes, don't turn dishes in the middle of the wine table. Leading food on the wine table is a no-no.

8. When you are six minutes drunk, finish the vinegar in the vinegar dish in front of you, and then ask the waiter to add it;

9. Fill it up every time you make a toast, then pretend not to take a small glass before drinking, and try to sprinkle some, so that you can drink a lot less every time;

10, put half a cup of tea in front of you before drinking, don't swallow it after drinking, quickly pick up the cup, spit the wine into the cup when drinking water, and then change the water after spitting, which works!

Table manners

1, enjoy the whole people, don't whisper.

Most banquets have more guests, so try to talk about topics that most people can participate in and get the approval of most people. Because of different personal hobbies and knowledge, the topic should not be too biased as far as possible, so as not to be dominated by one family, far apart, and talk endlessly, leading to digression and ignoring everyone. In particular, try not to whisper to others and give others a sense of mystery, which will often cause jealousy of "just you two" and affect the effect of drinking.

2, aim at both sides, grasp the overall situation

Most banquets have a theme, that is, the purpose of drinking. When you go to eat, you should first look at the expressions around you and prioritize. Don't drink for the sake of drinking, and you lose a good chance to make friends, let alone let some grandstanding drinkers disturb the host's meaning.

3. Appropriate language and humor

Sprinkling it on the table can show a person's talent, common sense, self-cultivation and communication etiquette. Sometimes a humorous language will leave a deep impression on the guests and make people feel good about you invisibly. Therefore, it is very important to know when to say something, to use appropriate language, and to be humorous.

4, moderate persuasion, don't force.

On the wine table, we often encounter the phenomenon of persuading wine. Some people always like to regard the wine field as a battlefield and try their best to persuade others to drink more, thinking that it is unrealistic to drink enough.

"Talk about heroes with wine" is ok for people who drink a lot, but it is difficult for people who drink less. Sometimes, excessive persuasion will completely destroy the feelings of the original friends.

5. Toast in an orderly way, with clear priorities.

Baking bread is also a science. Generally speaking, a toast should be made in the order of age, position and the status of the guest and the host. Before toasting, we must fully consider the order of toasting and distinguish between primary and secondary. In order to drink with people you don't know, you should first inquire about your identity or pay attention to what others call you so as not to be embarrassed or hurt your feelings.

When toasting, you must grasp the order of toasting. If you want to have a guest at the dinner table, you should be respectful to him, but you should pay attention to the fact that if someone with higher status or older people is present, you should not only be respectful to those who can help you, but also propose a toast to the respected elders first, otherwise everyone will be embarrassed.

6. Read words and understand people's hearts.

If you want to get everyone's appreciation on the wine table, you must learn to read and read. Because when dealing with people, we must understand people's hearts, so that we can play a good role on the wine table.

7, the edge is gradually exposed, sit firmly on Mount Tai.

At the banquet, you should see the occasion clearly, correctly evaluate your own strength, don't be too impulsive, try to keep some alcohol and talk, don't let others underestimate yourself and don't show yourself too much, choose the right time and gradually radiate your own edge, so as to sit firmly on Mount Tai and not give others the idea of "this ability", so that everyone can't underestimate your strength.

Details that should be paid attention to in table entertainment

1- seat

Generally speaking, the seating order is "Zuo Zun Dong" and "Zun Men". If it is a round table, the host and guests face the gate. In terms of the distance from the host and guest, the closer the host and guest are, the more respected they are. At the same distance, the left side is more respected than the right side. If it is a square table, if there is a seat facing the gate, the seat on the right side of the gate is the host and guest. If it is not facing the gate, the right seat on the east side is the chief.

If it is a big banquet, the arrangement between tables should pay attention to the chief, with 2, 4 and 6 seats on the left and 3, 5 and 7 seats on the right. According to the identity and status of the host and guests, relatives and friends should sit separately.

If you are the host, you should arrive early, then wait at the door and show the seats to the guests. If you are invited, you should be seated according to the host's arrangement.

Generally speaking, if your boss is present, you should lead him to the main seat and ask the customer to sit on the left side of the main seat, which is the highest level. Unless the entertainment object's leadership level is very good

Step 2: Order food.

If time permits, you should wait for most of the guests to arrive, distribute the menu to the guests and invite them to order. Of course, as a business banquet, you will worry about the budget. Therefore, it is most important to control the budget and do more homework before you cook. More importantly, choose a suitable place for your guests, so that they can have a great understanding of your budget. In addition, generally speaking, you pay the bill, the guests are not too embarrassed, and you are the host. If your boss is at the party, don't let him/her order because he/she respects him/her or thinks he/she has rich social experience and eats too much unless he/she asks for it. Otherwise he will feel that he is not decent enough.

If you are a frequent party guest, you should know that you should not take the initiative to order food, but let the host order food. If the other party asks in good faith, you can order a dish that is not too expensive or taboo. Remember to ask the people at the same table, especially "Is there anything not to eat?" Or "What do you prefer to eat?" Let everyone feel taken care of. After ordering, you can ask "I ordered, I don't know if it suits several people's tastes", "Would you like something else" and so on.

When ordering, be sure to know what you want. When ordering, you can follow the following three rules.

Look at the composition of personnel. Generally speaking, one dish per capita is a general rule. If it is a dinner with more men, the amount can be increased appropriately.

Second, look at the combination of dishes. Generally speaking, it is best to prepare a table of dishes well, mix hot and cold, and try to be comprehensive. If there are many men on the table, you can order more meat, and if there are many women, you can order more light vegetables.

Third, look at the importance of banquet. If it is an ordinary business banquet, ordinary dishes from 50 yuan to 80 yuan are acceptable. If the object of this banquet is a key person, order a few dishes with enough weight, such as lobster, swordfish and shad, and then serve abalone, wing powder and so on.

Another thing to note is that when ordering, don't ask the waiter about the price of the food or bargain. This will make your company look a little petty in front of customers and customers will feel uncomfortable.

Entertainment toast at the dinner table

1, the host respects the guest.

2. Accompany guests and respect them.

3. Host and guest thank each other.

4. Accompany guests and respect each other.

Remember: guests must not make a noisy toast, which is very impolite and disrespectful to the host.

4- pour tea

The knowledge of tea pouring mentioned here is applicable to both visiting the company's customers and business dining tables.

First of all, the tea set should be clean. After the guest enters the room, sit down first and order tea. Before making tea, you must clean the tea set, especially the tea set that has not been used for a long time. It is inevitable that there will be dust and dirt, so it should be carefully cleaned with clear water. It is best to iron the teapot and teacup with boiling water before making and pouring tea. In this way, it is both hygienic and polite. Whether the tea set is clean or not, it is impolite to pour tea for the guests. People get sick at the sight of stains on teapots and teacups. How can they drink your tea? Now the average company is disposable cups. Pay attention to put a cup holder on the disposable cups before pouring tea, so as not to burn the hot water and make the guests unable to drink tea for a while.

Secondly, tea should be moderate. Let's talk about tea first. Generally speaking, it should be appropriate. There should be neither too much nor too little tea. There are many Chata, and the tea taste is too strong; There are too few tea leaves, and the brewed tea has no taste. If the guest introduces his habit of drinking strong tea or weak tea, make tea according to the guest's mouth and stomach. Besides, pouring tea, whether it's a large cup or a small cup, can't be too full. If it is too full, it is easy to overflow and wet the table, stool and floor. If you are not careful, you will burn yourself or your guests' hands and feet, which will make the host and guests very embarrassed. Of course, it is not advisable to pour too little. If you only serve tea to the guests over the bottom of the cup, it will make people feel that you are pretending, not sincere.

Third, the tea should be served just right. According to the traditional habits of our people, as long as there is no disability in both hands, tea is served to guests with both hands. But now some young people don't understand this rule, so they hand the tea to the guests with one hand. Pay attention to serving tea with both hands. For a teacup with a cup ear, it is generally to hold the cup ear with one hand and the bottom of the cup with the other hand to pour tea for the guests. After a teacup without a cup ear is filled with tea, it is hot all over and it is difficult to get close to your hands. Some comrades, regardless of the willy-nilly, hold the edge of the cup with five fingers and give it to the guests. Although this method of serving tea can prevent scalding accidents, it is not beautiful and sanitary enough. Please imagine, let the guest's mouth lick the owner's fingerprint, does it feel good?

Add tea. If the boss and customers need to add tea to the cup, you are duty-bound. You can signal the waiter to add tea, or ask the waiter to leave the teapot on the dining table and add it yourself. This is the best way to hide when you don't know what to say. Of course, when you add tea, you should add tea to your boss and customers first, and then add tea to yourself.

The next page is more about the skills related to dinner.