Treating patients with an equal attitude does not reduce the status of nurses. On the contrary, it can promote the coordination, mutual exchange and communication between nurses and patients, so that patients can trust nurses and actively cooperate with medical staff to treat diseases. At the same time, patients are treated equally and respected, which reduces the sense of loss caused by the disease. This in itself is a beneficial adjustment for one's physical, psychological and even spiritual state, which greatly enhances the confidence to consciously resist the erosion of the disease. Therefore, we believe that establishing a sense of equality based on a sense of responsibility for nurses is an important part of completing their job with high quality, and is also an important aspect of nurses' creative work.
3 Friend awareness
With the awareness of equality, unnecessary conflicts and disharmony with patients can be avoided, and the purpose of initial communication between nurses and patients can be achieved, and each other can treat each other as guests. However, there seems to be a sense of distance between them, that is, the boundaries between the host and the guest are clear, and they cannot be integrated in each other's minds, that is, they have not yet reached the point of "I am in you, and you are in me". This kind of communication still needs to be expanded and sublimated. On the basis of the awareness of equality, nurses should also establish the awareness of friends. With the awareness of friends, the distance between nurses and patients can be reduced. Friendship consciousness in nursing work means that nurses treat patients and their relatives like friends at work, and invest a certain amount of emotion in the process of getting along with patients (of course, this is different from the opposite-sex feelings between men and women) , this kind of emotion is expressed in being happy that the patient's condition has improved, and being happy that their mood is comfortable.
We often encounter this situation when injecting intravenous injections into patients. When injecting a patient with whom we are familiar and have a good relationship, we can often hit the nail on the head. The probability of an injection is very high, and for a patient New patients or patients who have had disputes with nurses are always a little nervous when getting injections. At this time, the injection rate is low. Using the same operation technique, when patients with a good nurse-patient relationship are given intramuscular injections, they will not feel much pain, but when patients with a tense nurse-patient relationship are given intramuscular injections, they will feel extremely painful, and they will feel it once. It hurt more than once, and after their relationship with the nurse improved, they no longer felt the pain of the injection. This phenomenon tells us a truth: when there is good feeling between people, big things can turn into small things; when there is hatred between people, small things can also turn into big things. There are many operations in nursing work that will cause discomfort or even pain to the patient. If we treat the patient as an elder, brother, sister, or child, then not only will we strictly follow the operating procedures during the operation, but we will also Find ways to make yourself technically proficient, more efficient, and reduce the time and frequency of discomfort and pain to patients. On the other hand, "heart-for-heart" is also treated sincerely by patients, who regard nurses as their relatives, "With such good children, sisters, and aunts providing treatment and care for me, what does this little pain mean?" !" In this way, the nurse-patient relationship has entered a virtuous circle. Therefore, the awareness of relatives paves the way for achieving high-quality, high-efficiency, and good-effect nursing work. When a patient is discharged from the hospital with good memories, his own life is extended, and so is his social life - this is the charm and value of "family awareness"; when a patient is about to die with the thoughts of separation and death, In fact, the medical staff, as members of his "relatives" in his mind, have devoted their "relatives" emotions to the treatment of his condition and fulfilled the duties (obligations) of "relatives". While he was thanking his "relatives" , to commemorate the last moment of life, one should not regret the dedication of "relatives".
As the highest level of communication in the nurse-patient relationship, the awareness of family members is more difficult to achieve than the awareness of friends. We believe that "harder" does not mean that it cannot be achieved. During the war years, the rear areas treated wounded officers and soldiers on the battlefield. Medical staff and the general public regarded the wounded as relatives, served the wounded wholeheartedly, and sang touching and touching war songs of family love. Doesn’t this fine tradition have universal significance? Could it be said that it doesn’t? Should it be widely promoted? Hospitals are places where life-saving and humanitarian measures are implemented. This kind of place should be spotlessly white and spotless, and all available power should be used to treat patients without hiding any selfish thoughts. In the final analysis, the sense of family we advocate is to use the best skills and intelligence of nurses to serve patients. Skills are hard and are generated and formed through training. And intelligence often permeates more knowledge, character, personality and other cultivation elements. Once you develop a sense of kinship with your patients, you will be able to treat them kindly like your relatives, and integrate your skills and intelligence into your work to make your work even better and achieve the best results.
In short, the work of nurses is complicated, and in the final analysis it is just one sentence: "Serve patients wholeheartedly." The establishment of this "service" idea is the formation of nurses' job awareness, and the specific content of job awareness It is the consciousness of responsibility, equality, friend, and family. The four aspects of this content are progressive, step by step, and closely linked to form a comprehensive and three-dimensional consciousness network to guide nurses' work. Really creatively applying these four aspects in nursing work will fully reflect truth, goodness, and beauty, and strive to avoid falsehood, evil, and ugliness in nursing work. Because when nurses establish a sense of responsibility, they must be truthful and pragmatic at work; when they establish a sense of equality, especially the awareness of friends and relatives, they must treat patients well at work, cooperate with colleagues, and live in harmony with patients. The entire ward (ward) ) is not a family, but more like a family atmosphere; in the atmosphere of a "harmonious family", nurses and patients cooperate with each other and have a heart-to-heart relationship. "I am in you and you are in me." Beautiful harmony will inevitably emerge in the soul and sublimate the world. truth.
We say that nurses do tens of thousands of jobs, and each job is connected to the patient's "face." This does not mean that we should do things based on the patient's face. The "face" is related to the patient's health status; it is related to whether the patient is in a happy mood; It is related to the patient's satisfaction with the nurse's work; it is related to whether the relationship between nurses and patients is harmonious; it is related to whether the "family" atmosphere is warm. The nurse has the initiative to draw the "face", and the key to whether the drawing is good or not is also the nurse. We must keep in mind the motto of "If you don't draw a fox, you will turn into a dog" and truly strengthen job awareness, which is the key to drawing a good "face". This "face" also contains the nurse's own face.