0 1 Poor Cheng Fengzhang cried because her daughter didn't work or fall in love and sold the house she raised. Which one can't cross the hearts of parents, let alone put the three together? My daughter is 38 years old and her reproductive function is gradually declining. The competitive advantage of dating has dropped sharply. Besides, she has no job and her house has been sold. Zhang said that she was sincere and didn't feel at ease when she left.
Zhang cried and netizens quarreled. Naturally, most of them reprimand their daughters for "gnawing at the old", and some netizens say that it is no problem not to get married and have children! Some netizens also said that making short videos is all work! It's natural to say these words independently, but one must make a living first.
It is the disagreement of young people that will come to the end, and the daughter said that falling in love will not come. This is her independent choice. Only when mom and dad put forward suggestions should social development be inclusive. It is also worthy of recognition to say that he is now starting a short video business for small pets, because she is trying to get out of trouble and will not "lie flat" again. However, where is this business model and what is its market prospect? Make money? Daughters should also communicate with the elderly and let them know that they are not on a whim.
Objectively speaking, Zhang's daughter began to hold a winning card: she graduated from a key university and has a suite in Chongqing, so her parents' life does not need her pressure. According to the normal pace of life, finding a regular job, getting married or having children will not be like this stage.
Take responsibility for your own life. You choose your own lifestyle, live your own life, pursue your own ideals and know yourself. It's really not to please parents, but of course you can't "eat old people." The separation of personality and management power is, first of all, political separation. After economic independence, we can communicate with each other slowly and try to understand each other on other ideological issues, such as whether to get married or have children. If you can't even raise yourself well and it's specious, it's somewhat unreasonable. For example, is it reasonable to sell the house supported by mom and dad and start a small pet video blogger without mom and dad's permission? Do you have to invest so much money in making pet videos? As some netizens worry, will it be to discuss continuing to "lie flat" after selling the house?
In fact, it is understandable that a mother is worried about her daughter's behavior, and you can directly explain your point of view, but there is really no need to interfere too much in her daughter's life. Because, since 18 years old, she has grown up and will be responsible for her own life.
Any family should have principles and bottom lines. Any family can help children within its power, but there must be principles and bottom lines. One is that you can't provide a child's life without principles. If a person does not work and still has plenty of food and clothing, then children are likely to choose to lie flat. Second, don't use the support of economic development to deeply interfere with children's lives and guide them to live a good life.
Anyway, I basically agree with netizens on one point. It's time to wean the children. Children and grandchildren have children and grandchildren. Let her go. Second, stop crying, dry your tears and have a good retirement. Sometimes you have to learn to let go in life, which is also responsible for yourself. What do you think of this?