We should all live a more realistic life. My situation is similar to yours.
I am not a girl who likes to spend money, but after I entered high school, I spent more and more money. I thought about it carefully and it was my friends who were the reason. They often call me when they go out to play, eat, or buy things. I don’t buy much, but I have to eat. But food outside is very expensive, costing 20 or 30 yuan. . . From time to time, they would come to treat me. I have not been very good at rejecting people since I was a child, so. . .
However, I have decided that I will not go out to eat often anymore. This money doesn't belong to me, it belongs to my parents. Why should I waste their money? I should live a more realistic life and settle accounts among friends. After all, brothers also have to settle accounts clearly! We can't just go along with them because we're afraid they won't be happy, or we'll lose friendship. What kind of friendship is a relationship based on money?
Of course, you must also pay attention to social interaction, and fake faces are necessary. So helpless. . .
I wish us to find true friends soon! !