In fact, when they arrive at university, many people begin to feel that the cost of making friends has increased. For whatever reason, more and more students like to stay alone on campus. Students can often be seen eating, shopping and drinking alone. Sitting alone in a coffee shop, drinking coffee, watching the computer, listening to music with headphones on, completely immersed in his own world. Sometimes when you are alone, you can clear your mind and think about life. But the problem is that people are social animals, and society is not a place for a person to play.
Usually interpersonal problems will be formally highlighted after graduation. There is no fixed concept of class in universities. From kindergarten to high school, students tend to be class-centered. In the classroom with limited space, students quarrel, calm down and quarrel again, so they quarrel year after year. In college, the concept of class disappeared, and great changes have taken place in interpersonal relationships from quantity to quality. From kindergarten to high school, colleague relationship and teacher-student relationship constitute the whole content of interpersonal relationship.
But once you enter the university, you are an adult, a heterosexual friend, a senior student, a younger generation of teachers, roommates, group friends, part-time friends, and some off-campus friends. From the closest friends in the circle to the friends outside the circle, the man-machine relationship has exploded, and the personal relationship has affected your circle. It teaches you how to jump out of the existing circle, know a higher level of personal relationships, and establish a stable relationship circle. We should take a slow and fast, step-by-step approach. That is to say, the first layer of seed friends is defined, which affects the second and third layers of friends, and finally the first three layers become intimate circles.