China Rebirth Quality Development School, guided by experience, carries out psychological education, gratitude education, development education, moral education, legal education, personality education, survival education, experience education and other courses, providing parents with indicators, guiding children, providing a platform for parent-child interaction, communicating bridges, making up for the shortcomings of exam-oriented education, and implementing comprehensive quality education. Parents are children's first teachers. In primary school, children who can't be independent in all aspects have a natural dependence on us, so he has to imitate our natural nature. Everything we say and do at home affects our children all the time. Their eyes and hearts are always following, recording and feeling their parents' actions. If both parents love reading, there are very few children who don't like reading. Imagine that after a meal, parents always hold books and concentrate on reading, so will children be aroused to explore reading? Are they sure to think: there must be some secrets in the book, otherwise how can parents be so focused! With this in mind, children will naturally turn to books. If parents use more heart, they will seriously read books suitable for children as their own books (professional books) in front of their children. When children read books by themselves, they will naturally find a new world and will naturally be attracted. In addition, when the TV is turned off and the computer is not turned on, and both parents are reading, when the child feels that he has nothing to do, he will first be influenced and inspired by his parents to find a book to read. In the long run, it is impossible for you to keep your children from reading. Because he is like you, reading has become a part of his life, and he has formed a habit. If he doesn't study for a day, he will feel something missing, insecure and uncomfortable. Therefore, as long as our parents love reading and have the habit of reading, then we really don't have to worry about our children not loving reading. To take a step back, if our children are not influenced by themselves and don't like reading, it doesn't matter much, because you have read so many books and love reading, you will find a good way from them. A parent asked Uncle Dong Hao, who also said that his writing was influenced by his father, who was a calligrapher. In fact, such examples are too numerous to mention. This tells us that the simplest, most effective and most practical way to cultivate children's reading habits and interests is the demonstration and role model of our parents. For the sake of children's love of reading, let's parents pick up books and read them first. 2, the creation of the environment (1) No matter whether you have hundreds of square meters of bright rooms, or only a few dozen square meters of dim small dwellings, as long as you have children, you should strive to create a clean, neat and full of scholarly family life for him. Small environment. Of course, there should be books on bookcases, bookshelves and desks. There should also be books on the bedside, under the pillow and on the coffee table. Even we have to put two books in the bathroom, so that children can see and feel books in their daily lives. We should let children know that books are necessary for family life and for his own life. Children in primary school, we must let him have this kind of consciousness. We should regularly go to the bookstore with our children to choose books and buy books, increase the collection of books, give them a special seal for collecting books, {let children exchange reading books with children,} teach children to label books, build files, cover books, etc., which will provide good conditions for children to love reading and create a scholarly world. (2) The words and paintings on the wall, the flowers and grass on the windowsill, and the light music in the tape recorder will also add a lot of color to your scholarly world. As soon as children get home, they can feel a peaceful and elegant atmosphere from sight to hearing. Think about it, in such a small world, what kind of performance will children have? Will he still yell and be rude? What will he do when he has finished his homework and finished his meal? Besides listening to music and daydreaming, will he go through the books? (3) To cultivate children's good reading habits and make them love reading, it is also important for parents to control their bad emotions. At present, the social competition is fierce and the work pressure is great. Many parents are anxious because of work or physical health, and sometimes it is normal to be in a bad mood. However, if we don't think about our children and control ourselves, and bring these bad emotions home, show them on our faces and vent them on our family members, then we will inadvertently cast a cloud over the sky of our family, make the air in our family oxygen-deficient, and even release the smell of gunpowder, which will make our children feel nervous, afraid and depressed unconsciously. At this time, even if the child picks up the book, he can't read it and can't read it. Moreover, your emotions are easily transmitted to children, causing psychological shadow to children. After children pick up this book, the atmosphere you created (brought) will reappear, and the feelings of children will reappear. Therefore, it is very important for parents to leave their troubles outside the door and bring happiness home. If parents quarrel and fight, then don't say that children love reading. I'm afraid it's quite difficult for children to finish their homework on time. Therefore, parents and friends, life is unsatisfactory, control yourself, and then control yourself; For the children, for yourself! 3. Parents' guidance We are full of love for our children. We hold the children's future and future in our hands. It is very important to cultivate children's good character and behavior habits in primary school. Love of reading is one of the good behaviors of children. To cultivate children's interest and habits in reading and make them fall in love with reading, some of our parents still need to use their brains and skills. We might as well do it from the following aspects: (1) When talking about A, eating and doing housework, if the children are present, we must talk with relish about the books we have read or are reading (of course, not profound professional books or theoretical books) to family members (the other half), or consciously argue with the other half about the problems in the books. If the child is attracted, one party can treat the child as an adult, ask for the child's opinion, and let the child help himself. If you can't tell, you can open the book, * * * the content related to reading, or find the relevant content and let the children read it for you. The advantages of doing this are: a, let the children feel respected. B, let children know that books can help reason. C, let children feel that talking about books is interesting. D, at the same time, cultivate children's thinking and expression skills. B, often mention the content of the children's books, discuss with children, make children feel that the books they read are also liked by adults, and make his reading behavior recognized and generate pride. C, talk about the new book. Talk about the sales of new books, the author of new books or the awards won, so as to arouse children's desire to read. D, say the influence of a few details in the book on yourself, or on a generation. Let children feel that books have magical power. (2) Listen to "Harbin under the Night" broadcast by Wang Gang, and know Dan Tianfang, Yuan Kuocheng and Liu Lanfang. We are more aware that we love reading, and one of the important reasons is listening to those wonderful storytelling and novels. Listening is not enough, listening is anxious, so I went everywhere to find books to borrow. King cat, The Romance of Sui and Tang Dynasties, followed by Four Great Classical Novels, etc. were all read because they were interesting. Therefore, good broadcasts, such as continuous broadcast of novels and storytelling, poetry reading, etc., might as well be listened to regularly, so that children may fall in love with reading. (3) Ask beautiful chapters to read together. One paragraph for you, one paragraph for me. If you read in different roles, sometimes you can reverse the role and deliberately let the children read the words of adults and parents read the words of children. If conditions permit, it can be recorded and played, and satisfactory ones can be recommended to schools or radio stations. In this way, children can feel the warmth of reading and cultivate their thoughts and sentiments in reading aloud. (5) Tell the wonderful fragments in the book vividly, and the most important part comes to an abrupt end, deliberately leaving suspense, deliberately hiding the book, and deliberately not having time to decompose it next time. The child's appetite has been suspended, so it's strange that he doesn't look for books himself. Of course, the content of the book you speak must be suitable for your child's age and personality characteristics. If it is a child in grade three or four, I dare say that I use Harry? A little content in Potter and the Philosopher's Stone will make him read the whole book obsessively. Generally speaking, it takes 21 days to form a good habit. The child finished reading Harry? Potter, 21 days is not enough. Therefore, when he has finished reading these books, his interest in reading and habits have taken shape. If you introduce Hakberg again? Adventures of Finn, Two Wan Li under the Sea, Robinson Crusoe or Qin Wenjun, Yang Hongying, Cao Wenxuan and so on, they will enter the world of books step by step. (6) Watching movies is also a good way for our parents to guide their children to read books. After watching several classic blockbusters and then looking for the original works to read, children will know the difference between movies and the original works or scripts, and they will know more when they know how to read books, so they will continue to read books. (7) Please invite parents, friends or children who love reading to visit us, exchange reading experiences and books. Let children make friends and make friends with books, enhance their interest in reading with book friends, and affirm their love for reading with book friends. Gorky said: Books are the ladder of human progress. I said that books are essential nutrients for our mental health and life growth. Books enrich our minds, make our souls beautiful, and make our manners more cultural and civilized. Some people say that primary school students' reading is called eating books, because reading will make children in primary school grow bones and muscles. It makes sense for us to think about this. Parents and friends, pick up the book, and pick up the book with our children!