1. The first question. Is that a proposal? Or in dialect, engaged. If not, there is no such provision, and there is a saying for1w. What you said is folk, but this is not the only rule in the era of freedom of marriage. In fact, the key is to see whether both sides are willing.

2. nothing is wrong. This is to show the sincerity of the man. But this rule is not dead. This is a more traditional custom.

3. conference present ranges from several thousand yuan to ten thousand yuan or ten thousand yuan. Depending on your specific economic situation and specific situation, I suggest you ask them about the customs of the same village.

I suggest you ask your girlfriend indirectly whether there is a bride price between relatives and friends at home. You should know him well yourself. In this case, after many local men gave money, the woman repented and the man finally lost a lot. In fact, if your prospective father-in-law agrees here, your money is not a problem. But this problem needs to be grasped by yourself. It must be nice to be polite when meeting for the first time. As the saying goes, many people don't blame you for being polite!

The point is that these are all local customs. Nowadays, both men and women have grown up under the education of modern society. Some people care about this, others care about the freedom of love and marriage, and there are not so many complicated traditional rules.