When dealing with others, I can learn some clues of value judgment from the other person's words, and then distinguish what is more important to him. After distinguishing, it is easier to know whether to become attached to him or not. Therefore, the first step to make friends is to make friends, that is, to make good friends. For example, if you are interested in Confucianism, you will have the opportunity to become attached by attending such seminars. No matter how different our life experiences are, at least we want to hear Confucianism. This is the same place.

Affinity is: bravely choose what you like. In the process of choosing, you will naturally meet many like-minded people, get together slowly, and may become good friends in the future. So the first step is to become attached.

After you become attached, you should cherish it. For example, we have to have ten classes, and after the fifth class, we are doomed to have five more classes, so it is a pity to cherish these five classes. Everyone's design for the future is unreliable, and you can only grasp the present, so it depends on whether the present life is worth it. Do I like my present situation? If so, every moment of life can agree with what you have done, and the whole life is happy.