1, famous aphorism
If you live with the lame, you will learn to limp. This sentence emphasizes that to make friends, you should choose people with good influence around you. We should choose to associate with honest, kind and positive people, so as to get a good influence.
Think twice before making friends. This sentence warns us to think carefully when making friends, and to examine and evaluate each other's personality, behavior and values before making new friends.
It is better to have no friends than to provoke bad friends. This sentence reminds us to be cautious in making friends and choosing. When choosing friends, we should stick to principles and values, and don't associate with bad friends because of loneliness or unnecessary interests.
2. idioms and allusions
The story of Waiting for a Rabbit tells us that we should not wait for opportunities to fall from the sky, but should actively make like-minded friends and strive to achieve our goals.
This idiom tells us not to judge others by one-sided and limited information and experience in the process of making friends. We should abandon prejudice, judge a book by its cover, fully understand and understand each other, and establish sincere and lasting friendship.
This idiom means that we should learn from our mistakes and take timely actions to repair and correct our own mistakes. In friendship, if problems or contradictions are found, they should be solved in time to maintain harmony and sincerity.
Expand knowledge:
Besides the famous sayings and idioms mentioned above, there are many wisdom and teachings about making friends. Cultures and philosophies around the world also provide a lot of wisdom for making friends. For example, the ancient Greek philosopher Aristotle put forward three types of friendship: friendship of interest, friendship of pleasure and friendship of virtue. This difference helps us to better understand different types of friendship.
In addition, cross-cultural research also reveals that there may be differences in the concept and way of making friends in different cultures. By understanding the concept of making friends in different cultures, we can better understand and adapt to friends from different backgrounds. To sum up, making friends is one of the important activities in life, and famous sayings and idioms and allusions provide us with wisdom and enlightenment.
When choosing friends, we should choose carefully, associate with honest and kind people, and follow the principles of mutual respect, sincerity and trust. At the same time, we should also attach importance to our own values and attitude towards friendship, maintain the spirit of sincerity, loyalty and dedication, and add beautiful and meaningful friendship to our lives.