When the baby sucks the breast, the mother's pituitary secretes oxytocin, which stimulates the breast to produce and release milk, and the brain uses it as a neurotransmitter to promote maternal behavior.
Skin contact between mother and baby can also promote the release of prolactin, and then promote the adhesion of mother, that is, the attachment of mother to baby.
In other words, the hormones in mothers will make them love and attach themselves to their children.
What is Oedipus complex?
Oedipus complex, that is, a mother's extreme attachment and possession of her son, is manifested as a deformed and abnormal maternal love.
Taiwan Province province star Di Ying spends seven hours every day supervising her son's diet and arranging his life, study and making friends. His son is still breastfeeding at the age of 65,438+02, and he sleeps with his mother at the age of 65,438+05, so he has no independent space at all.
This way of treating children as personal belongings is not normal maternal love. True maternal love is to be close to the baby. When the child grows up slowly, learns to walk, has his own circle of friends, and has independent thoughts, personality and world outlook, he slowly learns to let go.