Recently, this topic has rushed to the hot search, which has caused many netizens to discuss. Netizens from all walks of life expressed their opinions and gave their answers one after another. Some spit, some feel, some sincerely, and some regret. ...
Is there really no real friendship in the workplace? Why can't the students who pour out their hearts and lungs on campus feel that intimacy when they enter the workplace?
To tell the truth, it is really not a simple thing to talk with colleagues in the workplace.
We are all honed the habit of "think twice before you act" by society, and weighing the pros and cons has become a subconscious action;
There is no absolute answer to the proposition whether you can make friends in the workplace;
But my idea is that adults who work hard in the workplace and talk only about friendship are hooligans.
Why don't many people recommend making good friends in the workplace?
0 1 What is a heart-to-heart friend? Perhaps many people will say that a good friend who has a heart-to-heart relationship can share joys and sorrows with you, help you when you are in trouble, and sincerely say congratulations to you when you are successful! However, where is the workplace? He is not a beautiful Alice dream. He is cruel. It's really not a simple thing to talk to others in a place that strives for performance, output and development. In the workplace full of competition and intrigue, it is really unreliable to have a heart-to-heart conversation with others.
It takes time to run a relationship, just like love, so does friendship. But in modern society, most enterprises are developing at a high speed, which will inevitably squeeze employees to varying degrees. So we will see that most office buildings are very busy. The daily life of migrant workers is nothing more than normal overtime. I wish I could work 48 hours a day. In this era of exchanging bodies for money, migrant workers have little time and energy to really run a relationship, and they are also colleagues who have a competitive relationship with themselves. Therefore, the word "colleague" is more practical than "friend" for relatively busy modern people.
Adult friendship ≈ Venture capital ≈ Adult friendship belongs to "venture capital" just like the fund that is hung on hot search every day. Good market, mutual benefit, bad market, no return.
Lizzie, played by Liu Shishi in the TV series Dear Yourself, is a salesman. He has a seven-year relationship with another salesman, Yuan Huizhong. They are not only mentors, but also friends.
When the company was in crisis, the boss asked to increase product sales. The performance PK of the internal sales team began, and the "emotional collapse" of the two team leaders also followed. Yuan Huizhong, regardless of his seven-year relationship, used tricks to cheat Lizzie and robbed all the sales backbones of the company.
Some people say that this practice is too heartless, but in such a tense situation, giving up feelings for the benefit is the best way.
The workplace is not a campus, and there are not so many pure friendships.
However, we should also know that "no friends in the workplace" is not an absolute proposition, it is constantly changing. If you have the same beliefs, directions and hobbies, you can go hand in hand and work for the same goal, travel abroad and become foodies. ...
If you want to make friends in the workplace, don't label your colleagues, and don't vent your dissatisfaction on other colleagues, because you should be prepared that you will "really make mistakes".