In fact, when making friends, you mostly need to take the first step, and then others will take the first step towards you. Most people won't pick you up or pester you to be your friend, and even if they do, they probably won't be kind. Making friends is a matter of chance. When you first look at some people, you can understand that they are the same kind of people as you and can be friends. So if you take the initiative, everyone will be very friendly and you will make many friends. Of good friends.

When I was going home, there was a boy who was traveling with me. Because he had been waiting for the train for too long, he came to talk to me. It was very dark at night and I could only hear the voice clearly. He just wanted to go home. , I didn’t think too much about anything, so the conversation went smoothly. When I got back, he added me on WeChat. We couldn’t see each other in person and didn’t have to worry about what he would think, so we started chatting openly like friends of the same sex. It was very opportunistic. Finally, we talked again. I didn't feel awkward when we met once, and we became friends successfully.

So the poster doesn’t have to worry. If you really can’t talk to someone of the opposite sex face to face, just turn to the people nearby and find one or two boys to chat with. If you don’t know each other and can’t see each other, you will feel relaxed. A lot. If you are very compatible, you will become good friends once you meet. Once you have more friends of the opposite sex, I believe you will dare to talk to the opposite sex in reality. You must have confidence in yourself and talk to them openly. Just chat. Boys won't think too much, won't be too shy, and will usually take the initiative to say hello to you afterwards. Making friends is not a blind date, just be yourself, no matter what they think, you are who you are.

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