1. Have the same ideal.
if you have the same interests, hobbies or are close to each other, for example, if you want to do something, he is also very interested in it. Only in this way can you form an ideal of * * *, and then you can produce a joint force, and * * * will work together to do it and do it well.
second, the strengths and strengths complement each other.
everyone has advantages and disadvantages, and there are advantages and disadvantages. If two people can complement each other and complement each other, it will be very beneficial to do things. For example, if you know technology, he has good social resources; You have the ability to organize and manage communication, and she has the spirit of hard work and hard work. Generally speaking, everyone can complement each other's strengths and combine rigidity with softness, so that they can give full play to their respective strengths and do things well.
3. Personality and temper are compatible.
The most basic thing for people to make friends is that they have the same language and are willing to be together. Regardless of their temper and personality, although people are different, you can tolerate each other, restrain each other, get together ideologically and emotionally, and tolerate each other's shortcomings. In this way, it is not easy to have differences and we can go on with one heart and one mind.
fourth, we have a lot of understanding with each other.
We are not only familiar with each other, but also know each other very well, which is the basis of making friends. Through comprehensive understanding of the people around him and those who have been with him for a long time, the other party has a clear understanding of all aspects. On this basis, after frequent exchanges, they can stand the test and gradually form a good impression, and naturally become good friends.
5. I know this person's past very well.
we usually say that the horse power is known from a distance, and people will see it over time. Therefore, it is not important to make a friend now, but also depends on what he did in the past. If he did well in the past, he is still excellent in all aspects, and he can certainly make friends. Otherwise, don't make friends with him if you have an unavoidable past history.
In short, it should be said that it is better to have more good friends. If you make some friends who can't get on the wall, it will be a burden or even a curse. Therefore, we must grasp the above five rules and truly make bosom friends who can help each other, help each other in the same boat and share weal and woe with each other.