Everyone has three selves in his life: the self he thinks, the original self and the self of others. Few people can really tell which state they are in at the moment, and at the same time catch up with themselves in another state.

Most people just stand in the perspective of passers-by, passing by, leaving no fragrance. Put yourself in the other person's shoes, regardless of your inferiority and self-confidence. You will be influenced by other people's opinions to define what kind of person you are, but in essence you only see one aspect, although it won't make you lose your way.

Loneliness is human nature, and it is closest to you. Because of loneliness, you look for friendship, love and affection, but they can never really eliminate inner barriers, such as boredom, all the time.

On the other hand, you are still on the way to perfect your personality at school, and you can't see or understand many things. I don't have too good advice to make you a heartthrob, but it doesn't prevent me from giving you other advice, setting a road sign for life and making progress in your studies, because excellent people will always attract others' attention and attention.

Finally, in this world, being hated is better than being pitied. Deliberately catering to others will be abandoned. Be yourself and strive to be excellent, and you will eventually deserve the love and friendship of others.