It's not difficult to make an ordinary friend. Playmates, classmates, colleagues, people with working relationships, as long as you have enthusiasm, it is not difficult to become friends. We don't rule out all kinds of friends, but we can't deny that friends may have a far-reaching impact on our lives, so we should also be careful to make friends, not abuse them. However, it is normal to take some detours in the process of making friends, that is, when people become mature and learn to do things.
The concept of friends will also change with the change of society. A few decades ago, although people were nervous, they didn't have much water for their friends' sincerity. In 1970s, China's concept of friends changed a lot. Because of the lack of material and the importance of human feelings, many people realize the "benefits" of friends. People have never shown such a strong enthusiasm for making friends, and this enthusiasm has not changed much until now, because it is not easy to change after a habit is formed, not to mention the strong support of China people's human feelings.
It is the change of friends' concept that makes the composition of friendship between friends decrease a lot. Friends are seldom as light as water, but as the ancients said, they are as sweet as honey. It is rarely because of the same ambition, but because interests and * * * attract each other. In this way, our friendship will be much more fragile, because once friendship is related to power and money, it will definitely not be harmonious, stable, frank and lasting. If you add indiscriminate loyalty, it will be even worse, and the final outcome will often hurt everyone more.
True friends need to be valued by both sides, and the word sincerity is mixed from beginning to end. If you add the same hobbies and appropriate tolerance, you can form a true friendship. True friendship can stand the test of time and space. It is like aged wine. I also want to point out in particular that even among good friends, everyone needs to make all kinds of efforts that are almost hypocritical. Praise and even flattery are indispensable, just as a good machine needs lubricating oil. Moreover, it is impossible for any good friend to communicate without reservation. These are all determined by the needs and characteristics of human nature.
Although life is long, it is not easy for us to make a real friend. It is impossible for a villain to do it, but a gentleman is just more likely. However, many things in this world only need us to enjoy the process, and so does making intimate friends? !
There's another one. I don't know why
An important part of China's cultural tradition is the tradition of friendship, which is even stronger than the tradition of expressing love. From the description of words, from the spread of the people, it reflects that people attach great importance to the relationship between friends. The road of life is very long. Our life will be full of ups and downs, and there will be many emotions. Even with relatives, we still don't feel enough. Therefore, we also hope to have some friends who can share joys and sorrows and help each other. In the communication with friends, our life will be rich and colorful, and friends will bring us many happy times and leave countless good memories. Friendship can be said to be in life, we get the best treatment of interpersonal relationships, and even we find a lifelong partner, which mostly starts with friends.
It's not difficult to make an ordinary friend. Playmates, classmates, colleagues, people with working relationships, as long as you have enthusiasm, it is not difficult to become friends. We don't rule out all kinds of friends, but we can't deny that friends may have a far-reaching impact on our lives, so we should also be careful to make friends, not abuse them. However, it is normal to take some detours in the process of making friends, that is, when people become mature and learn to do things.
The concept of friends will also change with the change of society. A few decades ago, although people were nervous, they didn't have much water for their friends' sincerity. In 1970s, China's concept of friends changed a lot. Because of the lack of material and the importance of human feelings, many people realize the "benefits" of friends. People have never shown such a strong enthusiasm for making friends, and this enthusiasm has not changed much until now, because it is not easy to change after a habit is formed, not to mention the strong support of China people's human feelings.
It is the change of friends' concept that makes the composition of friendship between friends decrease a lot. Friends are seldom as light as water, but as the ancients said, they are as sweet as honey. Rarely come together because of the same interests, but because interests and * * * attract each other. In this way, our friendship will be much more fragile, because once friendship is related to power and money, it will definitely not be harmonious, stable, frank and lasting. If you add indiscriminate loyalty, it will be even worse, and the final outcome will often hurt everyone more.
True friends need to be valued by both sides, and the word sincerity is mixed from beginning to end. If you add the same hobbies and appropriate tolerance, you can form a true friendship. True friendship can stand the test of time and space. It is like aged wine. I also want to point out in particular that even among good friends, everyone needs to make all kinds of efforts that are almost hypocritical. Praise and even flattery are indispensable, just as a good machine needs lubricating oil. Moreover, it is impossible for any good friend to communicate without reservation. These are all determined by the needs and characteristics of human nature.
Although life is long, it is not easy for us to make a real friend. It is impossible for a villain to do it, but a gentleman is just more likely. However, many things in this world only need us to enjoy the process, and so does making intimate friends? !