1. If you find that the person you associate with is mercenary, you can't make friends with him.
it's normal that each of us needs to get benefits in order to survive and develop. However, when we gain benefits, we must adhere to the principle of doing something and not doing something, so as to achieve "a gentleman loves money and takes it in a proper way." ..... In real life, some people have reached the point of unscrupulous pursuit of interests. Such mercenary people just can't make friends, and they should stay as far away from them as possible.
2, hypocritical people have poor quality. Such people are people who can't make friends with each other.
for a person, the most important thing is character. People with noble character are not only respected, but also can benefit a lot from interacting with them. ..... However, in real life, some people are very hypocritical, and such people are of poor quality, even inferior character. Communicating with such people is not only detrimental to their own development and progress, but may even damage their own interests. ..... Therefore, you can't be intimate with hypocritical people.
3. What we pay attention to when interacting with people is emotion. Therefore, people with indifferent feelings can't make deep friends.
The communication between people is actually the communication of feelings, so the most important thing in communication with people is actually feelings. Only when we are sincere in each other's feelings can we have a heart-to-heart exchange, deepen our relationship and develop our feelings. ; However, among the people you associate with, some people are very indifferent. No matter how you treat him, you can't get a response. All your efforts are taken for granted in the eyes of the other party ... You can't get his sincerity when you associate with such indifferent people, so it's useless to associate with such people. This kind of person is not worth making friends at all.