2. You should let others save face at all times. Don't embarrass anyone, don't belittle others, and don't exaggerate their mistakes.
3. Only speak well of others behind their backs. If you can't find anything to say, then you should keep silent.
4. Observe others carefully, and then you will find out what he has done. When you express your praise, you should give reasons, so that your praise will not be flattering.
5. You should always quote other people's noble thoughts and motives. Everyone wants to be considered generous and selfless by others. If you want others to improve, then you act as if they already have these good qualities. In that case, he will do everything possible not to disappoint.
6. You should try not to criticize others, and if you have to criticize, you'd better take an indirect approach. You should always be right about things, not people. You should show the other person that you really like him and are willing to help him. You should never criticize others in writing.
7. You should allow others to feel good about themselves occasionally. Don't brag, but admit that you have shortcomings. You should be modest and prudent, guard against arrogance and rashness. If you want to make enemies, you will hit others everywhere. If you want to get friends, you have to be forgiving.
8. When you make a mistake, you should apologize in time; When you are going to be blamed, you'd better take the initiative to apologize.
9. You should give more suggestions instead of giving orders. In this way, you can promote cooperation and avoid conflicts.
1. when others are angry, you should show understanding. Other people's anger is often just to get your attention. You should give enough sympathy and attention to others ―― they need it.
11. You should talk as little as possible. You should give others a chance to tell, and be a good listener yourself.
12. You should convince others that the idea comes from him. A good idea doesn't care who owns it, but everyone is willing to believe that they are acting according to their own wishes. The ocean is the king of streams, because it can accept all rivers.
13. Don't interrupt others, even when they say something wrong. When he has something on his mind, he won't listen to you patiently.
14. You should try to analyze things from the standpoint of others. The Indian said, "First of all, you should walk a long way in other people's shoes." Don't forget to ask yourself: Why did he do it? Understanding everything means forgiving everything.
15. Don't always be right. You can be smarter than others, but you don't tell each other. You have to admit that you may be wrong ―― this will avoid all quarrels.
16. Give small gifts often ―― you can find ways to make others happy without any reason. The energy you spend on the gift shows how much you spend on him.
17. In case of conflict, you should keep calm. First of all, you should listen to each other's opinions and try to find the agreement between the two sides. You should also look at yourself critically, promise to consider his opinions and thank him for his inspiration.
friends, this feeling is really unclear. I only know that good friends should help each other, support each other, respect each other and promote each other. They should be honest with each other, without barriers or concealment. These things are said too much. < P > Before, I always thought that she was my best friend, but I found that people would really change, not just her but me. I felt that our distance was getting farther and farther, and I couldn't talk to her with better ideas, because she couldn't understand, and maybe she also had something to give me. But I also feel that I can't understand it, and I can't help it. After all, we can only spend three or four times a year together, and we are all too different. When she is confused, she may think of me, but the distant water can't put out the near fire. I can't stay with her all the time, lacking love for her, and my feelings need to be cared for. There is nothing I can do about the rest. Now, when we are together, we usually don't talk about too many personal things. It seems that those things that we are not around each other have never happened. It's just good to be together. It's simple to watch TV and joke, cook together and make noise, and don't think about any previous troubles or other things. It's just the present, just the present. I feel very good that we are together, but she may not think so, and I won't ask her, which will hurt my feelings. This may just be different.
I'm in a bad mood today, and what I said is a little sad, but I want to tell you that what you have to do is change and action. It's no use just thinking. You should improve your strength, image and humor. People don't live for others, but people live in people's world, so I guess from what you said, your friends should still be studying, and you should also be a man. < P > Well, the point is that if you think these friends are still worthy of your association, you should start to change from what I said, start to take action, improve your ability that you don't think you have, and do what you didn't dare to do before. People with elegant manners and the ability to earn money and live a quality life will not learn from you, and will they not be proud of having a friend like you? Don't mention them, even if you don't take the initiative, a new group of people who appreciate you will come close to you and want to be your friends. . . . Furthermore, if you think that they are not worthy of your association, you should go out to participate in more activities, clubs and so on, and cultivate your team friends in all your hobbies.
What your friends ultimately want is to be sincere, that is, they will feel comfortable and comfortable together.