Recently, I was watching Happy Boys, a long-lost program, in which there was a boy named Yin with a natural voice. His voice is feminine, and when he makes a sound, he is too shocked to speak. But he doesn't like to laugh naturally, and always faces the audience with a cold expression. So many people think he is too cold, too cold. Seeing this topic at the moment, I can't help but think of a sentence he said. He said, "I smiled. You didn't think I smiled, but I did." Yes, people laughed, but we have to say that people didn't laugh. What can he do?
Natural indifference doesn't mean anything, and we can't easily define others as arrogant indifference. Face is born, it is a face given by heaven. Yes, the first thing we see is the face. Some people are born with affinity, and the expression on their faces can easily win the favor of others. Some people are born with cold and sharp facial features, giving people a sense of distance and oppression. But none of this can stop us from making friends with others. Therefore, to a great extent, it is our subjective impression that makes it difficult for people with cold faces to make friends. Therefore, the first step should be to let go of our prejudice against cold-faced people and get to know them again.
Of course, old ideas cannot be abolished at once. Therefore, in addition to other people's changes, people who are naturally indifferent can also try to actively change other people's inherent views of themselves. When a rare smile appears on a naturally indifferent face, I think it is easy to surprise a person and then rejoice. Since you are naturally indifferent, why don't you take the initiative to break the silence and communicate with others, so that others can know themselves again and understand themselves more deeply in the process of communicating with themselves, so that others can realize their enthusiasm and a sincere heart.
I found that, in fact, many times, people with cold faces and others look at him like this, all in their own guesses, but they have never been in contact with each other or communicated in depth. I think when two people show their sincerity to each other, they will make great changes to each other. In this era when we can't see each other's true colors clearly, how precious a true heart is. No matter poker face or indifferent face, there is only one true friend, and that is to treat each other sincerely.
A person with a naturally indifferent face is actually more open-minded and will make friends more easily if he is only indifferent in appearance. I think such people can try to take a humorous route, and they can also do some tricks to enliven the atmosphere and improve others' views on themselves. After all, everyone will be more willing to further contact and communicate with someone who has left behind and put down himself.