When the beauty heard this, she immediately smiled like a flower and asked: "Are you Brother Yong?" Liu Yong changed his humble style of scholars in the past and replied: "I am Liu Sanbian who wrote the lyrics for the purpose." How thick-skinned is this? It is much thicker than a shield and cannot be pierced by a spear. Being thick-skinned also has the advantage of being thick-skinned. Later, they became confidante, "I will never regret it as my clothes get wider and wider, but I will become haggard because of Yi." This is what Liu Yong wrote for this beauty. Opportunities need to be created. How to create opportunities? Invite her to have a drink, no, this is on the street; give her a flower, no, they don't recognize you; imitate Bai Suzhen to make the wind and rain, and then give her an umbrella, no, you don't have that ability; go up to her and bump into her, no , it’s too rude; stare at the person, and then say, the beauty is like a friend of mine, haha, not to mention, others have already done this trick. What to do? We still have to learn from the ancients. In "Bamboo Branch Ci", Liu Yuxi depicts a young man who, in order to attract the attention of a beautiful woman, shouts popular songs in a boat, which is a way of creating opportunities. Not to mention whether the singing is good or not, but the lyrics are absolutely sultry. What about rain or love? Wouldn’t a beautiful woman blush after hearing this? There is an anecdote from Qin Guan in the Northern Song Dynasty, which sounds like creating opportunities. He said that he met a beautiful woman on the road and wanted to strike up a conversation, but he didn't have the courage, so he asked the book boy to go to the beautiful woman and tell the other group of people that there was a singing competition going on somewhere in the Bianhe River. It was very lively. Come and watch. At that time, people in the Song Dynasty loved this, and Qin Guan made the right calculation. The beauty would definitely go, and she had to cross the Bian River. He arrived on the other side of the river one step ahead. When the beauty's boat arrived, he quickly stepped forward to help tie the rope. It doesn't matter, it's all about love. After that, I wrote a poem to record it: "I still remember my sentiments, and I once tied the ship back to the boat. What happened on the Bi Ye Zhu Bridge that day, no one was seen, and the water flowed empty." To chat up a beautiful woman, you need to seize the opportunity. If there is no opportunity, you have to create it. Qin Guan is a master. In the story about Tang Bohu trying to pick up Qiuxiang, Tang Bohu tried to chat up Qiuxiang many times, but why he never succeeded? Zhao Yan summed it up: first, he was pretending to be a beggar, second, he was too rogue, and third, he created an opportunity but chose the wrong place (how can you pick flowers in a temple?). Apart from being thick-skinned, he had no merit whatsoever. As a last resort, Tang Bohu sold himself to Washington, creating a final opportunity for himself. It is best to have a new opening statement. With the first four "warm-ups", a gentleman needs to speak. If you don't speak, other beauties will think you are mute. So, how should you say the first sentence to be effective? "The lady is so beautiful", "the lady's clothes are so beautiful", "the weather is so nice today", if you can only say these, then I tell you, you are screwed, not only are you clichéd, but also tasteless, other beauties will laugh. Smile and say goodbye. In the Song Dynasty, Li Zhiyi struck up a conversation with a beautiful woman from Kunshan. His first sentence was, "I live at the head of the Yangtze River, and you live at the end of the Yangtze River!" It was like meeting an old friend in a foreign land, "What fate". Of course, Li Zhiyi told a little lie. He was from Qingyun County, Hebei Province. Why did he go to the northwest? But this lie definitely left a deep impression on the beauty, shortened the distance between the two parties, and won her favor. In ancient times, beauties were indeed easy to strike up a conversation with, and they couldn't stand it once they hooked up. The beauty approached and said, "I will definitely live up to my love." Renren Yuan Haowen is famous for his straight-to-the-point approach. He just started chatting with a beautiful woman and started discussing emotional topics, asking her, "What is the relationship between men and women in this world?" This question is a natural question, just like making a bet with a girl. No matter how the girl answers, she will lose: if the answer is wrong, you will come with me; if the answer is correct, you have to follow me. As expected, Yuan Haowen determined the fate of three lives with one question, and he and the beautiful woman became a pair of "crazy children", experiencing the joy of joy and the pain of separation. Also, it’s best to be humorous, and if you make a beautiful girl laugh, you’ll be more than half successful. There are many examples in this regard, so I won’t mention them all. (Source: Internet)