How important is it for the two sexes to get along, have consistent views, and be like-minded? 1: Having the same language
Communication is the basic prerequisite for people to communicate with each other. People who meet their best friends after a thousand cups of wine cannot coexist after all. Men and women, if they step into this "forbidden zone" , is there any chance of harmony and happiness? Two people with similar views and similar interests must have all kinds of jokes that they can connect with each other, and they can also have fun in every communication. This is what it means to get along in a truly healthy relationship, physically and mentally. Compared with heterosexual marriage and dating, there is nothing to say, this is the most terrifying thing. 2: Attitude towards things
According to the premise of having the same language, the attitude towards things after a man and woman are united is also one of the reasons to measure whether two people can be harmonious. The attitude towards things reflects a person's self-cultivation. Although two people coexist in certain aspects, the same attitude is an obvious basic characteristic of the consistency of the three views. If a man and a woman choose to be combined, they are two people connected by destiny. If you use your energy in one place and keep your mind in one place, you will of course be harmonious and extremely happy. If two people often have completely different attitudes towards the same thing, conflicts will often arise, and it would be impossible to achieve perfect compatibility. 3: The stance of solving things
No one is a saint, and the integration between people will not be 100% perfect, but they can easily achieve 99% perfection. This 99% is enough for the three views. The best evidence of consistency. However, even if two people with different views and different views merge with each other, they will only reach agreement in a small part of the area. More than 80% of them will go in opposite directions, so that they can't resolve their opinions on things between them. It’s always putting the cart before the horse. In a state of different opinions, each other will have to use some rigid thinking patterns to change their significant other, which is undoubtedly a feat comparable to heaven.
In order to avoid the vagaries of love, you should cherish it more, but choose a person with consistent views and like-minded interests to achieve the goal of cherishing. Love is the mutual affection, care and humility between two people who have the same views and like-minded interests. It is not two people who are at odds with each other and insist on cherishing each other but staring hard! A pair of people from generation to generation, missing each other but not being in love with each other. Love is being together willingly. If you want to ask for something, you must know how to invest. Only people who have the same three views and like-minded people can achieve positive results!